Lidong Zheng was a mother of four, a loving wife, a talented dentist, an entrepreneur, a dear friend, and a child of God. She became a dentist in China and later passed all the dental exams again here in Canada. She had a dream of opening her own dental office and achieved it, growing it quickly in just a few years. While she loved her work, her family was the reason she worked so hard. She loved to travel. She visited China, Spain, the United States, Brazil, Japan, and Guatemala, sometimes for family vacations, and other times to take classes and volunteer as a dentist in low-income communities.
As a mother, she was the one who planned vacations, arranged family events, and bought festive decorations. She took her children camping, to the beach, skiing, sledding, and shopping at the mall. Although work kept her busy, she still made time to watch shows and movies with her daughters during their “girls' movie nights.” She would end calls by saying, “Mommy loves you.” When she missed her daughter, who had gone to university, she would rest in her daughter's room. She would go to the playground with her youngest son, taking him biking when she had free time. Even when she was coughing from lung cancer, she performed a perfect root canal for her eldest daughter. She would pop her head in her oldest son's room to say hi even when she couldn't walk by herself anymore. Later, when she was bedridden, she still asked her sister to bring new bedsheets, pajamas, and leggings from China for her youngest daughter.
As a wife, she was her husband's closest confidante. Together, they went through the hardships of being new immigrants to Canada. They never separated across countries for work. Instead, they stayed together and built a family despite the initial financial challenges, persevering like many immigrant families. She would watch shows and often have late-night chats with her husband. When her husband said he wanted nothing for Christmas and the kids didn’t know what to buy, she always knew the gift he truly needed. She knew her husband and children well and always put her family first.
As a friend, she was kindhearted and generous, offering help with selflessness and warmth. She cherished school reunions and the university friendships she had built decades ago. She comforted her friends when they cried while visiting her. As a daughter, she went to China to care for her father and mourn the loss of her mother, while being there for her siblings. Finally, as a child of God, she listened to sermons in her spare time, especially during her remaining months. She would attend the early 9 a.m. Sunday church service to praise God before work. She also took time to read the Bible with her son. Without hesitation, she sponsored two children in another country, and often prayed for her friends and family.
It is difficult to adequately describe such a capable woman, who was both wise and emotionally present for everyone around her. Lung cancer caused her great pain, yet she battled it bravely for a brutal six months, with the first three months initially misdiagnosed as pneumonia. She passed quietly, but her loss has brought so many tears to those who knew her because she played every role in life so well and meant so much to them. She no longer has to suffer from cancer and has gone to a better place, though her presence is missed greatly. She lived an admirable life, bringing joy and happiness to others. Everyone will miss and never forget the light she brought into our lives.