In memory of

Ottilie Scheeler

September 12, 1928 -  July 16, 2025

It is with both heavy hearts and deep gratitude for a life well-lived that we announce the passing of our beloved matriarch, Ottilie Scheeler, who left this world peacefully at 96 years old, with her son (Reinhard) and daughter-in-law (Vicki) by her side.

Born in Rheinhausen, Germany in 1928, Otti was a woman of remarkable strength, grace, and unwavering love. Over nearly a century, she faced life’s changes with resilience, dignity, and a fierce spirit that never wavered.

She was the devoted wife of Erhard Scheeler, her steadfast partner, who predeceased her. Together they built a home filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories—a true partnership that continues to inspire us.

As a loving mother, she raised her children (Reinhard Scheeler and Ricky Scheeler, predeceased) with care, wisdom, and strength. She shared a special relationship with both of her daughters-in-law, Vicki Scheeler and Fernanda Williams—a relationship of mutual respect, warmth, and friendship.

She was a grandmother to Kelsie, Jamie, Monika, and Erik, and a great-grandmother to six beautiful great-grandchildren: Aiden, Addie, Gabriella, Romeo, Ethan, and April.

Lovingly known as Oma, she became the heart of our family—always there with a warm embrace, a story, and words of encouragement that were as honest as they were loving. Her home was a place of comfort; her laugh, a sound of joy; her love, a constant we could always count on.

Though we will miss her deeply, we are comforted knowing she lived a long, full life surrounded by family and friends who adored her.

A celebration of her life will be held on August 7. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you share a story, perform a kind deed, or simply take a quiet moment to remember her—just as she would have wanted.

Reunited now with her beloved husband, Erhard, and her dear son, Ricky, may they all rest peacefully—together again, hand in hand and heart to heart.

Rest peacefully, Ottilie. You will always be with us.

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Kelsie Van Roon (Granddaughter)

Entered July 18, 2025 from Whitby

My grandma and I always shared a special bond, but I felt it deepen in a new way after I became a mom myself. I had always seen her as “just” my grandma—not really as a mother. But once I had my own kids, it felt like she looked at me differently. Maybe I reminded her of herself when she was younger. I’m not too sure, but that connection was always there.

I was her first grandchild, born just after she injured her back in a workplace accident so severe she never returned to work. But she always told me how my birth motivated her to push through physio and get as strong as she could—so she could help care for me. That story meant a lot to both of us.

Throughout her life, she cared for all her grandchildren in her own way. A few times, when I came to her with a heavy heart, looking for advice, she would share stories about her own resilience—living through the war—and tell me: “If I was able to survive that, you can surely do anything.”

Thank you, Oma, for your love, your strength, and your stories. You’ll always be with me.

Jamie Scheeler (Granddaughter)

Entered July 18, 2025 from Pickering

Love you Grandma!!! I will always think of you. Thank you for the beautiful life you gave us. Truly, a special remarkable spirit!! I already see you in parts of my day!!! Can’t wait to see you again 🤍🕊️

Debbie (Cousin in law)

Entered July 18, 2025 from Scarborough

Truly heartbroken as you are, a mother never leaves you. She will always walk with you. Your heart will know when she is there.

Norma Desjardins (Friend)

Entered July 19, 2025 from Collingwood

Vicki and Reinhard, very sorry for your loss. I’m not sure who wrote that obituary, but my first thought was that it was a brilliant depiction of Otti. Not that I had seen her for several years, she was always very kind and welcoming to me. And that goes way back to the days that they lived in Scarborough. I do remember those days well. You are right when you said that she had lived a good long life and a well lived one. XOXO.

Jeffrey Williams (Friend)

Entered August 4, 2025 from Aurora Ontario

Deepest sympathy to the Scheeler family and all who new her. I came to know her as Grandma and was always impressed with her wisdom and kindness.
God Bless Grandma, you will truly be missed.
Jeff

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