In memory of

Teresa Zofia Witlib-Paré

May 15, 1948 -  August 31, 2023

On August 31, 2023 Teresa Zofia Witlib-Paré (75) died peacefully in Toronto, surrounded by her family.
Teresa considered life an adventure, one that she happily shared with husband of 53 years, Michael Paré; her two daughters Erika Paré and Karen Paré, son-in-law Paul Barkin; and her grandsons, Levi and Nate Barkin.

She was born on May 15, 1948 in Hastings, England to Polish parents, Aleksander Witlib and Olimpia (Ryszkowska) Witlib. In 1950 she emigrated to Canada with her parents, brother John Witlib, and twin sister Grazyna Witlib. The family settled in Welland, Ontario, where Teresa lived until graduating from grade 13 at the Welland High School in 1968.

In September of 1968 she met Michael Paré on her first day at St Thomas University in Fredericton New Brunswick. It was love at first sight. A few months later Teresa proposed. They were married in Welland on August 15, 1970.

Their life together was a magical love affair. They were true kindred spirits and anyone who knew them often remarked on their mutual affection and devotion to one another. They raised their girls in Sackville, New Brunswick until 1988 and then in Halifax, Nova Scotia.

Teresa and Michael moved to Ottawa, Ontario in 1999, and then to Newmarket in 2008, finally settling in Etobicoke in 2018.

Teresa was an avid reader; a sensational cook; a talented painter and visual artist; had an unparalleled greenthumb, and was known to host the most entertaining and fabulous dinner parties. She also loved playing bridge and golf. She was creatively fearless, taking on any project she could imagine and executing it effortlessly. She delighted in the creative process and spent much of her life making the world around her more colourful and beautiful.

She was funny, insightful, loyal, loving, sometime mischievous and ever curious about others and the world around her. As a result, she made friends easily. She believed in being bold, and taking chances. She could be ready in minutes for a trip. She had no hesitancy in relocating from one part of the country to another. She had a razor sharp wit and delighted in the intellect and humor of others - especially when it involved sharing a delicious meal and drinking a glass of wine (or two!).

Her greatest joy, however, was to be with her family. Her husband, children and grandchildren were the center of her world, and she of theirs. She was the glue and guiding force of her family. Her presence will be enormously missed.

The family would like to thank the incredibly kind and professional staff of St Michael’s Hospital Palliative Care Unit and the Princess Margaret Hospital. We are forever grateful for their care.

A Celebration of Life will be held at the Mount Pleasant Funeral Centre, 375 Mount Pleasant Road, Toronto, Ontario, on Sunday, September 10th at 2PM. Teresa loved colour and asked that attendees abandon sombre attire in favour of something a bit more lively.

Teresa - a lifelong user of public libraries - asked that donations be made to a public library of your choice in lieu of sending flowers.

Guestbook 

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Cindy and Ivan Rebello (Friends)

Entered September 3, 2023 from Newmarket

Dearest Michael and family,

Ivan and I are better people for having known Teresa. I shared many hopes and dreams with her, as she was often a surrogate mom to me. Her passion and zest for life has touched us and encouraged me to pursue my dreams. Her special gift to me will be cherished forever. She was a rainbow on a cloudy day. Michael , we will keep you and your family in our prayers

Jane Bailey Koruna (Friend)

Entered September 3, 2023 from Welland Ontario

Teresa and became good friends when she came to Welland High. We spent time daily enjoying card games, time at her parents cottage at the lake and golfing with my Mom. What wonderful summers we had.
I was honoured to be asked to be in her wedding party.
Even though I haven’t seen Her in a number of years I remember all the fun we had.
Rest in peace my old friend.
You will be remembered.

Shane & Patricia Turcotte (Very good friends of husband brother)

Entered September 3, 2023 from Orange Park, Florida. USA

All our knowledge of Teresa was second hand from Peter and Kim. It was clear that their love and respect for her was immense and as result we too were truly impressed by her talented and forthright life. We are so proud to have known her vicariously through Pete and Kim.

John M Martin (former classmate @ Notre Dame)

Entered September 3, 2023 from Fonthill

Hey Griz and Johnny...
She was a 'hoot'...and we laughed alot...Teresa was special...during our time at ND

Tina philbrick (Wife of my cousin)

Entered September 3, 2023 from Maine

Michael and family, my sincere condolences to all of you. May her beautiful spirit be with you . Thinking of you all.Much love to you.

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