In memory of

Susan Elaine Murphy

January 9, 1953 -  January 29, 2025

Susan passed into the Great Beyond surrounded with love and music, under the excellent care of St. Michael's Palliative staff on January 29th, 2025. She leaves behind her loving daughter Madeleine, sisters Sharon and Holly, brother Thomas (Darlene), nieces Alicia (César) and Samantha (Jarod), and nephews Nick (Carrilyn) and Mitchell. She was a proud Grand Aunt to Nick and Carrilyn's two daughters Claire and Josephine, and to Samantha and Jarod's son Boaz. She is predeceased by her parents Jean Murphy (nee Trainor) and Harry Murphy, her brother Franklyn Murphy, and her sister Sandra Murphy.

Susan threw herself into anything she did with authenticity and gusto. This included her Bachelor's Degree in Child Psychology, her Master's Degree in Education, her work at Ontario Institute for Studies in Education, and her role as Administrative Manager at both the University of Toronto's Institute for Life Course and Aging and the Toronto Region Statistics Canada Research Data Centre.

Music was a huge part of Susan's life. She played Glockenspiel in the Burlington Teen Tour Band during their triumph as the only Canadian competitors to win a prestigious American Teen Tour Band competition. She was an accomplished soprano vocalist devoted to learning classical, jazz, folk, and swing, joining various musical groups throughout her life. In the 1980s she lent her dulcet tones to the vocal trio The Spadina Sisters, who busked in Toronto's Yorkville and St. James Park, played the Brunswick House, and were later accepted into the Mariposa Festival. She was a cherished member of the Toronto Mendelssohn choir for many years, and was sought out for weddings, parties, and church services as a solo vocalist. When her sister Sandy fell ill with cancer, Susan travelled between cities each weekend to take care of her while working full-time, later moving in as her primary caregiver. After Sandy died, Susan devoted herself to cycling for the Marie Curie's 'Malin to Mizen' palliative care charity ride across Ireland - sometimes training for over 100km per day in rain-soaked gear. When her mother Jean also became ill with cancer during the pandemic, Susan moved in with her and slept on a living room couch in her one bedroom apartment to take care of her - while still working full-time. She was a kind, optimistic, angelic and positive presence, with nary a cruel bone in her body. She continues to be beloved by everyone touched by her sweet personality, shining smile, infectious laugh, and generous spirit. She will be profoundly missed.

Susan and her family would like to extend a special note of thanks for the excellent medical care she received from Princess Margaret Cancer Centre staff, especially her oncologist Dr. Sam Saibil, for his years of above-and-beyond responsiveness, advocacy, and dedication to her health and wellness.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to one of the many causes that were important to Susan. Below is a suggested list.

Poverty, Education, and Indigenous Rights Organizations:
Childhood Poverty Eradication: https://lovewithoutboundaries.in/
Community Schools of Music in Toronto: https://www.communitymusic.org/support
Na-Me-Res: https://www.nameres.org/donate/

Palliative Care Related Donations:
Marie Curie https://www.justgiving.com/mariecurie
St Michael's Palliative Care Unit: www.stmichaelsfoundation.com/SusanMurphy
The Carpenter Hospice: https://give.stratly.com/carpenter-hospice/campaigns/40600-in-memoriam

Animal Welfare: https://torontohumanesociety.donorsupport.co/page/Donations

Guestbook 

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Bill and Myrna Vair (Cousin)

Entered February 4, 2025 from Sault Ste Marie

Our sincere condolences to the family! Susan was a loving, caring, kind person! She will be missed by all! Sending hugs !

Tom Vair (Cousin)

Entered February 4, 2025 from Sault Ste. Marie

Our deepest condolences to the Murphy family. Susan was such a wonderful person and we always enjoyed our visits. We will always remember her kindness and visit to James while at Ronald McDonald house last year complete with ice cream sundae fixings! Love and hugs, Tom, Michelle, Audrey, Andrew and James

Angela (Friend)

Entered February 5, 2025 from Toronto

I had the privilege of working with Susan for nearly twenty years. She brought precision and dedication to everything she did, always ensuring that things were done right. But beyond her work, she was always there to listen, with an open heart and a kind ear. I could always count on Sue to help me step back, laugh, and find joy even in the chaos.

I offer my deepest condolences to her extended family and her daughter, Maddie—her greatest love, who meant the world to her. May Susan's spirit, humor, and kindness live on in every memory you have of her.

Tina (friend and colleague)

Entered February 5, 2025 from Campbellville

I met Susan in 2001 when I was a naïve new Analyst at the Toronto Research Data Centre. She took me under her wing and helped me navigate the university bureaucracy for many years. I was lucky enough to work with Susan in different capacities throughout my career. My favorite story to tell people is how Susan reacted when I told her that we gave them too much money one year and had to claw it back the second year. It was our error, but instead of giving us a hard time or pointing out the inconvenience this would cause, Susan apologized to me. She said, I’m so sorry Tina for missing that. I should have caught that….. She would rather take responsibility for something than blame another.

I admired Susan tremendously for her authenticity. She cared about what mattered but didn’t care what others thought. I introduced my daughters to Susan during her treatment. I told them that she is one of the smartest women I have been fortunate enough to meet.

Evelyn Reid (Cousin)

Entered February 5, 2025 from Barrie

Madeleine, Sharon, Holly, Tom: I will miss Sue and have been enriched by having her in our family. From when we were 12 and travelled by bus to the St. Joseph Island cutoff and let off at the side of the road waiting for our Aunt Madge to pick us up and spend time with her at her cottage. Sue’s beautiful voice would sing us to sleep at night and her amazing laugh when Aunt Madge thought we should learn to drive on the hills of St Joe. Sue was much better than me!

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