I shall always treasure the happy days we spent together teaching at McMurrich Public School
I would like to extend my sympathy at the premature loss of Sonia to all of her close friends and family. Sonia always seemed so full of life to me, and so happy to participate in so many different activities. I will see many of you on Saturday. Pam
sonia and i agreed in an october conversation that after a long time apart,
it would be awkward for others close to us were either of us to be at the
other's funeral
suffice it to say that i loved " sushy " a lot since the day she was born
we experienced many different kinds of things together, and were
really quite close and supportive to one another for many years
retrospectively, about 30 years ago, circumstances occurred that
created intolerable pressure for her and cast us apart
over the last 7 or 8 years, we spoke every 3 months or so
i shared with her a number of times that apart from the obvious
tensions that were problematic for us, i often had the very distinct
underlying feeling that she was trying to protect me
she reacted with a poker face, but never animus or disagreement
even in our last conversation she responded to my concerns about her
mood reflecting health issues with total silence
that last conversation re the funeral question was generated by my
penchant for planning, but the decision was made by her
no one deserves more than she to be taken seriously, so i am
the topic of what would happen after one of us died was never
broached by either of us
eli
Sonia was a lovely person as well as being a wonderful and dedicated teacher. I'm sure she will be very much missed by her family, friends, and colleagues.
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.