Sheila,
What do I say about the warm wonderfully loving woman who saved my dad's life?
I remember the story dad told me about how he met Sheila. He was going on vacation to Barbados by himself. He approaches the check-in and sees Sheila bent over her bag and he made a cheesy pickup attempt. Before they disembarked he had secured a date to a young couples wedding with Sheila as his plus one. But the best thing about him telling me the story was the huge grin on his face when he talked about her. When he got sick before you were married I knew that he was safe with you by his side. You nursed him back to health, you gave him a new family, you gave him a reason to live. You accepted his family as messed up as we are, you became the only Nana known to Alyssa and Matthew who love you. While we were not that close later in life there was a period in my life when you made me feel like I wished that you were the mom that raised me instead of my mom and how different I would have probably have turned out. I never told you how much you really meant to me. I also know how much you made dad happy and I feel in my heart that when you arrived in heaven he was standing there in front of everyone with open arms just waiting for you.
Love you always
Sue
You were a sweet woman, with a giant heart. You brought alot of joy into the world, even more so in Papa's life. It saddens me to know that you are no longer with us in this life, but I know you are happy in the next life with papa and all of our loved ones. May your your light shine bright in the heavens above
There are people who enter your lives, and naturally, easily, become such a part of your lives. A person fundamental to your emotional bedrock. The problem with such, is that you come to take them for granted. As if they'll always be there. And then, one day, they're not. I truly cherish every moment I got to spend with you Sheila. And I deeply, deeply regret not making an effort to enjoy more. Rest well. Enjoy your journey onto the next stage of things. I hope one day we'll meet up again. All my love,
David