Human lives are shaped by a rich tapestry of experiences, circumstances, and challenges that together craft our unique personalities. Ruby May McLean (Nee Virgo) was a remarkable soul whose life spanned institutions, eras, and genres, leaving a lasting impact across nearly a century. To those who knew her, she was more than just a mother, grandmother, and spiritual guide. Ruby or Nana as she was affectionately called, was a pillar of her church and community, a skilled food technician, a talented seamstress, a passionate gardener, a missionary leader, and most of all, a genuine Christian whose kindness and love bettered everyone she touched.
As the Bible reminds us in Ecclesiastes 3:1: "To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." Ruby lived through her seasons with grace and dedication:
A Time to Be Born Ruby May McLean (Nee Virgo) entered the world on November 27, 1926, in Claremont, St. Ann, Jamaica, as a precious blessing to her parents, George and Evelyn Virgo. Even in her earliest years, her love, care, and faith set the foundation for a life of purpose.
A Time to Learn and Grow Educated at Home Side Elementary School, Ruby's journey of learning began with a strong work ethic and wisdom. Her natural talents shone brightly. Whether it was her remarkable skill as a seamstress or her green thumb in gardening, she used her gifts to build a nurturing environment for her family and anyone who crossed her path.
A Time to Love and Build In 1959, Ruby married the charming Leslie McLean. Together, they built a faith-centered, joyful family of eight, with a deep love for God and their community. Despite the loss of her husband, one of her daughters, and a grandson, Ruby remained unwavering in her devotion and love.
A Time to Serve and Give Ruby was known as a woman of unshakable faith, a true prayer warrior, and a compassionate helper. Her service to God and her community knew no bounds. Whether leading ministries, working as a Bible worker, or simply beautifying her church with flowers from her own garden, Ruby's contributions reflected her commitment to making the world a better place.
A Time to Share and Nourish Ruby's kitchen was her canvas, and her love was expressed through unforgettable meals. Her macaroni and cheese, potato pudding, and other dishes left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to experience them. Her generosity extended beyond her cooking. She made sure no one left her home without food, plants, or a sense of upliftment. As her daughter Lana fondly recalls, “children in the community would repeatedly greet her until she shared a treat, knowing her heart was always open.”
Her guiding principle was: "If I can help somebody as I pass along, then my living shall not be in vain." Ruby embodied this with every act of kindness and service.
A Time to Rest on February 24, 2025, Ruby peacefully departed, leaving behind an extraordinary legacy of faith, love, and selflessness. She is survived by five children and their spouses Doreen (Terrence), Oliver, Sadie, Lana (Samuel) and Leslie. One sibling Catherine, 12 grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren, and countless friends and loved ones whose lives she touched.
May her soul Rest in Peace, and may her memories be a blessing to those who were privileged and fortunate to cross her path.