In memory of

Roy Blackwell

August 11, 1929 -  March 2, 2020

“There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains”

Peacefully, in his favorite chair, in the early hours of March 2, 2020 Roy took leave of his physical body. Born to William John and Ethel Blackwell in a small railroad home on Marlborough Ave in Toronto, in 1929, Roy was a middle child and one of 7 children – 5 boys and 2 girls. While working at his first job, for Coca Cola, Roy was introduced to the love of his life, Mary, and they married on a rainy day, November 4, 1950. In 1959, three children in tow and one on the way, they left Toronto for Newmarket to live in their brand-new home. Roy spent many years working for the Toronto Transit Commission as a subway, streetcar and bus driver. His real passion, however, was music and he followed his dream in 1965 opening Newmarket’s first music store: Blackwell’s. He loved to play guitar and sing and he and Mary (on mandolin) hosted many sing-a-longs with friends and family. There was always a party, music, good food and friends at their home. After the music store was sold, Roy worked in Real Estate, and, finally retired from his position as Assistant Supervisor of Transportation with the North York Board of Education, to enjoy their Haliburton cottage in the summer and winter home in Fort Myers, Florida.
A loving and devoted husband, son, brother, father, uncle, grandfather and great-grandfather, Roy was always available to lend a helping hand. While extraordinarily sensitive, he believed in honesty and forgiveness and would often share his opinions and advice freely. His strong work ethic was paramount to his success and he ensured all of his children understood the importance of commitment and a job well done. While he worked hard, he also played hard and his sense of humour was beyond compare. There was nothing Roy enjoyed more than a good belly laugh with his friends and family.
Roy is preceded in death by Mary, his wife and partner of 58 years, his sisters: Marjorie and Ethel, and his brothers: William and Victor. He is survived by his children: Sharon (Kent), Arlene (Tom), David (Pat), Carole (Dan) and Connie (Richard); his grandchildren: Jodi, Justin, Kerry, Graham, Gregory, Colin, Evan, Callie and Clara, his great-grandchildren: Everleigh, Willow and Nico and his dear brothers: Harry and Doug and his beloved dog Benji.
Special thanks to his loving caregivers, Ellen, Tashi and Palak who always made his days special. Roy’s ashes will be placed next to Mary’s, at Mt Pleasant Cemetery, in a private ceremony later this year.

In lieu of flowers donations to an Alzheimer Association of your choice, are welcome.
Please sign the guestbook and feel free to post a memory or picture of Roy in the photo gallery!

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Andrea Wallis 

Entered March 11, 2020

This is a beautiful tribute to an amazing man....I wish I could have known him, and been a guest at one of the musical parties he and Mary frequently hosted.
My condolences and sympathies to the entire family. May the beautiful memories bring great comfort and joy....

Paul Jenkins 

Entered March 11, 2020 from St. Margaret's Bay Nova Scotia

Sad to hear the passing of a very nice man. Our sincere condolences to the entire family.

Peace to you all during this time.

The Jenkins family.

Karen and Jerry Caume 

Entered March 11, 2020

David and family, sorry for your loss, sounds like Roy had a wonderful and long life.

Sharon Blackwell - Malcolm (Phoenix, Arizona)

Entered March 11, 2020 from Daughter of Roy

How does a daughter say goodbye to her dad? With tears and sorrow or with smiles and loving memories. Happy times with you and mom, enjoying the garden at #39,
fish and chips at Captain George's in Stouffville, a glass of wine or two or three together at the dinner table with family and friends, heated political "discussions", Christmas, birthdays, sing-a-longs with family & friends, summers at the cottage in Haliburton, and relaxing winters the beach in Florida. Daddy, you lived life to the fullest, you loved your children, your grandchildren and great-granddaughters with all your heart. You taught your children to be kind and thoughtful citizens, and you always smiled and said "I love ya" even in the most trying of times. I feel such sadness that you are gone. I find myself lingering over old photos, watching videos of you singing along with your friends at Amica, remembering our FaceTime visits when I couldn't be there in person, but in all my sadness and tears I take comfort in knowing you are with mom again and that your guiding hand will remain on my shoulder forever. "my father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person; he believed in me". He believed in all his children. I love you dad. #1 daugher Sharon

Joyce Morgan 

Entered March 11, 2020

With deepest respect to both, I’m sure that Roy and Mary are once again making beautiful music.

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