Dear Bernadine,
Truly heartbreaking! Rein was such a brilliant student and a cherished friend; his passion for life will continue to inspire others. Thinking of you and Rein’s fiancee and all of his many friends.
Our most sincere and heartfelt condolences for the loss of such a fine young man. No words, but silent prayer for him and all the family at such a difficult time.
Our hearts are with you at this difficult time
Rein and I became friends during our time together in the Systems Control lab. He was a key player in making the lab environment so wonderful: he was kind, generous, jovial, quirky, fun, silly, and always had something interesting and thoughtful to say. We shared tea and coffee every morning, which was a process he took incredibly seriously. We’d sip our drink and discuss ideas, or have debates on everything from mathematics, to film, to the best kind of apple for pie. He had strong opinions during those debates, yet he always listened and he smiled throughout it all. I will always remember that smile, and the laughter that usually came with it.
Rein: you were a wonderful, interesting, one-of-a-kind person, and I’ll miss you terribly. I hope you’re with your dad, and that wherever you are there’s good tea, good food, and a link to Wikipedia.
Rest in peace my friend.
Bernadine:
As a parent myself, I cannot imagine having to live through and with such a thing happening.
My very deepest sympathy and condolences are totally ineffective in this tragedy, I know, but they are yours in your time of grief.
Warm regards always.
Tara