In memory of

Rashmikant Mehta

October 15, 1935 -  August 28, 2021

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Rashmi Mehta, of Mississauga Ontario, on 27th August 2021, in his 85th year. Rashmi was born on October 15, 1935 in Louis Trichardt, South Africa, the third and youngest son of Mayaben and Bhupatrai Mehta.

Rashmi studied at the University of Bombay in 1959 where he fell deeply in love with Khorshed (Rita) Unwalla, a shy and beautiful Parsi girl studying law, who he wooed with his Tony Curtis good looks, leather jacket, motorcycle and “you-only-live-once” zest for life. Never settling for the mundane, Rashmi and Khorshed (Rita) eloped and married in a civil ceremony July 6th, 1962 in Bombay, surrounded by close friends and family. They had two beautiful children, son Shamir (anagram for “R-a-s-h-m-i”) and daughter Anita (Anneta). Rashmi joined his older brother, Anil, and emigrated to Canada in 1966 and eventually settled in the Greater Toronto area, with his wife and children. He poured his heart and soul into his own successful business (his baby), Legends ‘n Letters, which he started in 1984. He was a loving husband, a devoted father and benevolent grandfather. He enjoyed spending time with his family, neighbours, and close friends, making Sev on Christmas morning, sharing his passion for wildlife with his grandchildren and reciting stories of his childhood in South Africa (right up until the last days of his life). He had the opportunity to take his family to his beloved South Africa in 2014, where his children and grandchildren were able to experience, through his eyes, the breathtaking beauty of the country, the warmth of the people and magnificient wildlife. Rashmi instilled humour into every aspect of his life, which drew so many toward him. He loved vacationing in the Caribbean with his family, his trips to Europe with Rita and dining out with friends and family. He knew every notable restaurant (and notable dive) within a 100 mile radius, making it a point to always remember the names of waiters, and treating everyone, no matter their position, with respect and humility. His favourite words of wisdom to his children and grandchildren were: “follow your passion in love and life”, “always do the right thing, your integrity is everything” and “if it is right for you, don’t worry about what others think or say”. Rashmi had built-in charisma, with the ability to make people laugh, enjoy life, and feel good about themselves. He was deeply loved by so many and will remain in the lives of all who knew him.

Rashmi is survived by the love of his life, Rita Mehta of almost 60 years; by his children, Dr. Shamir Mehta (Roy Owens) and Anita Dubey (Gautam); by grandchildren Dr. Anisha Dubey, Nimisha Dubey, Shivam Dubey, Maya Mehta-Owens and Keyvan Mehta-Owens; and by brothers Anil and Suresh Mehta. The family wishes to thank Dr. Rosalyn Juergens of Juravinski Cancer Center and all the other doctors, nurses, friends, and neighbours who helped care for Rashmi. In memory of Rashmi and his love of nature, the family ask that consideration be given for a small donation to the World Wildlife Fund (https://secure.wwf.ca/site/Donation2?df_id=3403&mfc_pref=T&3403.donation=form1) in lieu of flowers.

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Fawzi Sayed 

Entered August 30, 2021 from Mississauga

Rashmi, You are missed, I'm sour you are in good company, rest in peace.
If I may share with you all a passage from Gobran's " The Prophet"

You would know the secret of death.

But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?

The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.

If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life.

For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.

In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;

And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring.

Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity. Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour.

Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?

Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?

For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?

And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?

Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.

And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.

And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance. 92And now it was evening.

And Almitra the seeress said, Blessed be this day and this place and your spirit that has spoken.

And he answered, Was it I who spoke? Was I not also a listener?

Bernice MacDonald 

Entered August 30, 2021

I am greatly saddened to hear of the passing of my friend Rashmi. He was a wonderful friend to me. I first met Rashmi when I started my position as Marketing Secretary at Sherway Gardens in 1988. We became friends right from the start and shared many of his favorite delicious fish and chips lunches. We had many wonderful conversations about family. friends and life in general. He was someone I could talk to and that is a rare find in a friend. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family that he loved so very very much.

Rosezana Khan 

Entered August 30, 2021

The World has lost an incredible Life.
You have our sincere condolences,
our Deepest Sympathies and our Unending love.
May your wonderful soul Rest in Peace
From Rose khan and Family

Verinox Ltd (Roger de Moura)

Entered August 30, 2021 from Mississauga

I fought my socialist friend ideas everyday for 22 years, day in and they out but I also miss him everyday since he moved his business (his baby) out of our complex. A decent and integral man who really loved life, nature and his family.
RIP Metha I will meet you again one of these days.

Adi & Sherry Unwala 

Entered August 30, 2021

Our dearest Khorshed, Shamir, Anita and family,
Our Dear Rashmi will be forever missed.
He leaves a deep void in our family..
His sense of humor and his easy personality endeared him to all.
We have such fond memories of our visits and gettogethers.
May God give you all courage and strength to cope with your grief.
We are always here for you.

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