Paul Cantor died on August 10, 2018. He was not surprised. There were just too many things going sideways from the neck down. Paul is survived by all the people who didn’t die before him, including his sister, Sharon Abbott, who he always said looked younger anyway; his partner, Helen Sinclair; his former wife, Lynn Morgan; their children, Adam, Andy, and her husband, Alastair Miller, and their children, Wyn and Sadie; Helen’s children, Mark Coatsworth and Anna Coatsworth, and her partner, Alex Teijeira; and Helen’s mother, Sonja Sinclair. There are no dogs or cats which will pine at the foot of his empty armchair.
He had a deliciously eclectic career that spanned the private sector, public sector and civil society. From his early wet-feet days at World University Service of Canada, he went on to work with Canada’s Department of
Finance, Polysar Limited, CIBC, Confederation Life, National Trust, the
Toronto Leadership Centre, Russell Reynolds Associates, and Bennett Jones LLP. Chutzpah, good timing, and perhaps the vision thing, led to increasingly senior appointments. But his mother always asked: “Why can’t you keep a steady job?” Later, he held a number of directorships and chaired the boards of the Public Sector Pension Investment Board, York University, the Global Risk Institute, Revera Living, and Quadreal Property Group. He did not crave power, and found that being a board chair suited him better than being the CEO.
Paul considered himself less than an intellectual heavyweight, but he was a good listener, sometimes made good decisions, and occasionally provided inspiring leadership. He was called “Candid Cantor” because he told people what they would do if they were him, rather than what he would do if he were them. He believed that people, particularly young people, did not need to know their career goal, but only what they did not want to do, and then to steer between those extremes. That said, after swearing in law school that he would never practice taxation, in his view the most socially reprehensible field of law, he spent ten years as a tax specialist doing just that. And what’s worse, most of it was for a bank.
He published a series of articles over the years ranging from taxation to governance and developed the key concept distinguishing between the board’s role in providing oversight and the role of individual directors offering insight. Later, he found that his vacation journals titled “Travels with Helen,” were immensely more popular.
Lacking eye-hand coordination, Paul limited his sport activities to those where the ball was stationary prior to the moment of impact, such as golf and billiards. He enjoyed the company of his fellow sportsmen and of his friends, not least his breakfast group where erudition, humour, and irony all reigned with equal force. He read widely, mainly in history, science, public affairs, and fiction; but never ever in self improvement.
Paul received his undergraduate Arts degree from the University of Alberta, his Law degree from the University of Toronto, and articled and was admitted to the Ontario bar from Goodmans LLP. His community achievements were recognized by the University of Alberta, York University, and the Order of Canada
In lieu of flowers, Paul invites you to go to a bar, order a martini and toast, not him, but life. L’Chaim.
Paul’s celebration of life - fully orchestrated by him - will be at the York Club (135 St. George Street at Bloor and St. George), on Sunday, September 30 at 3 p.m.
Celebration of Life
135 St. George Street (at Bloor and St. George), Toronto, ON, CANADA, M5R 2L8
Sunday, 30 Sep 2018 3:00 PM
Info: Paul's celebration of life was fully orchestrated by Paul himself, as was every meticulous detail of his passing. Some of these details he appears to have been planning for at least 75 of his 76 years. Others he managed, quite astoundingly, during the final two weeks of his life. Please note that this is the York Club, and Paul believed in dressing properly on the right occasions. Please come attired accordingly.