Pat's youth was largely spent living a block north of where my grandparents lived with their 3 daughters, and because of that she became lifelong friends of my Aunt Sue. In the years since my aunt's passing, I have increasingly spent more time with Pat and gotten to know her as the wonderful person she was. She overcame much, and served as a great inspiration to me - handling life's curves with perseverance, grace and humour. I will miss her terribly.
I can hear her signature chuckle now. You will be missed Pat Balme.
Pat was a lifetime friend of my long departed Aunt Sue. I have many memories as a younger lad of visiting Aunt Sue's house and visiting with Pat. She joined us for many Christmas or holiday dinners over the years. I admired her strength. I know she meant a lot to my brother Don also.
I remember many New Year's Eve parties at Aunt Rita's. I would snuggle up with Pat and watch her knit or needlepoint. She was my kindred left handed cousin. She taught me to knit. She taught me that it is okay and sit in a room and just be happy to be with everyone. I always loved when family got together. We spent many Thanksgiving, Easter, Christmas and New Year's together. I miss you.