In memory of

Parmeshwar Dass

June 6, 1931 -  April 12, 2020

Parmeshwar “Paul” Dass, 88 of Teri, NW Frontier Province succumbed to Parkinson’s in the comfort of his nursing home, The Village of Humber Heights, Etobicoke surrounded by his family. Painfully only in spirit and not in person due to the Coronavirus. This occurred on the auspicious Easter Day April 12th, 2020. He was loved by his family and all that knew him at his bedside via the internet in his last days.

Parmeshwar is survived by his wife Tripta of 65 years, his sons Rajeev and Sanjeev, his daughters in law Bhavna and Sonia, grandsons Arnav, Armaan and Ishaan and many nieces, nephews and extended family. He was a wonderful son, husband, father, father in law, grandfather and sibling. He never met a stranger and his family extended beyond blood relatives to so many individuals. He single handedly took responsibility for his entire family at the age of 12 when his father died prematurely. Parmeshwar and his family survived the Hindu/Moslem riots during the partition of India. Despite all the obstacles he had to overcome, he educated himself, provided for the family and managed to join the elite Indian Foregin Service. This allowed him to make the extra income to provide for his family back home and educate his sons at the most prestigious schools in India. He rose above all expectations from the remote mountainous village bordering Pakistan/ Afghanistan. His work took him across SouthEast Asia, the Middle East, Africa, Europe, North America to finally settle in his home of 33 years, his beloved city of Toronto, Canada. He prematurely retired from the Foreign Service at the age of 56 and embarked on a new career in Mortgage and Real Estate. Forever the charmer, he loved the mortgage business and real estate sales. The integrity with which he conducted himself was legendary. Like with everything in his life, he went above and beyond for his clients and coworkers. This is testament to the fact that so many of them have reached out to us at this grim occasion and have become part of his extended family unbeknownst to us.

Parmeshwar loved a good bridge card game as well as a three card Indian poker game, watching his cricket games around the world at any time of day or night. He loved to watch and listen to old classic Hollywood and Bollywood movies and songs.He also liked a good scotch! Mentally and physically active, he pursued his passions until 10 years ago when Parkinson’s took hold of his body. Prior to that you could not keep up with him. The disease debilitated his body, but nothing could dull that sharp mind. Until recently you could still see that twinkle in his eye and his zest for life was amazing. These are some of the words that describe him. Fearless, Determined, great work ethic, full of life, witty, mischievous, and always ready to help his fellow man. His mantra of life “Never take NO for an answer!”. A special thank you to all the staff at Village of Humber Heights, Etobicoke for their loving care and support and providing that human touch during his final days, organizing and assisting with FaceTime and Zoom meetings with the family. Also, the family would like to extend their sincere gratitude to the Meadowvale Funeral Home for their understanding during this difficult time. The COVID restrictions have tested us all in so many ways. We appreciate the hard work they have put into making the last rites befitting the great man we are laying to rest.

No flowers or donations please.

The Vasudeva Family

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vickram kumar vasudeva (nephew)

Entered April 14, 2020 from india

days will pass and
turn into years
but we all will always remember chaachaji
with silent tears

the loss is unmeasurable
but so is the love left behind

Mrs. Vandana Bajaj (Niece)

Entered April 14, 2020 from Abu Dhabi, UAE

Condolences. Chachaji you were a great soul who always helped the family. Let us join hands and pray for his journey to heaven. Rest in peace. Chachaji, we will miss you.

Aruna and Ajay Gupta (Friends of the family)

Entered April 14, 2020 from Toronto

Our sincere condolences to the family on the loss of a revered elder and patriarch. Theirs was a golden generation of strong persons who struggled immensely and paved the path for future generations. We salute them and owe them for what they handed down to us.

Sunill Nagpal (Nephew)

Entered April 15, 2020 from New Delhi

May mamaji's soul rest in piece, he was the guardian/pillar of the family, may Almighty give strength to the family members, his memories will remain in our hearts forever

Nagpal Family

Vandana Bajaj (Niece)

Entered April 15, 2020 from Abu Dhabi, UAE

Dear Chachaji

You were a candle that lighted the way for us, the Vasudeva family. You have left an indelible impact.

My heartfelt condolences to the entire family. In this grief period, let us all join hands to pray for chachaji's peaceful journey to the almighty. May his soul rest in peace.

Vandana and Rajesh Bajaj

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