In memory of

Monika Stegmann

April 10, 1953 -  January 2, 2025

Monika Stegmann passed away peacefully at the age of 71 on January 2, 2025. She was born on April 10, 1953, to Anna (née DeBoy) and Sebastian Stegmann in Mömlingen, Germany. She was sister to Irene, Anita, Michael (Mariana), and Peter (Jane); proud mother of Nigel (Danielle), Dane (Lisa), and Scott (Hannah); and loving grandmother to Sophia, James, and Parker to whom she was affectionately known as “Omi.”
A Registered Holistic Nutritionist, Monika was a fierce advocate for healthy living and never shy to share the knowledge she had diligently accrued over many years, knowledge she applied during her lengthy battle with cancer. She possessed a singular determination for self-improvement and was always striving to be the best friend, neighbour, sister, mother, and grandmother she could be. Monika delighted in life and in the company of her robust social circle. Friendships new and old were a constant source of joy for her and time spent with friends was always cherished. A lifelong athlete and lover of nature, Monika was happiest on the tennis court or in her magnificent garden. She enjoyed learning, teaching, and experiencing new cultures which she explored through hiking vacations around the world in her later years. Monika never forgot her heritage and made a joyful trip to Germany last year where she was able to reconnect with friends and family.
We will remember Monika’s kindness, thoughtfulness, confidence, and commitment to helping others. She gave of herself generously and could always be counted on when a friend, sibling, or son was in need. Monika dedicated herself fully to every endeavour and always gave her best as she knew no other way to live life. Monika would want us to honour her by practicing gratitude and forgiveness, being nicer than necessary, and thinking about how we can make someone else’s life better today.

Guestbook 

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Joanna Blanchard (Leaside Garden Society)

Entered January 10, 2025 from Toronto

Monika was a steadfast member of the Leaside Garden Society for many years. She generously allowed the Society to include her charming garden on our annual garden tour some years ago, and more recently she volunteered her time tending the gardens at the Leaside Library. She will be much missed.
On behalf of the Society, I extend condolences to her family and friends.
Joanna Blanchard
Leaside Garden Society president

Jackie Strazzeri (Granite Club Employee)

Entered January 12, 2025 from Ajax

Nigel, Danielle and family, I was shocked to hear of Monika’s passing. My condolences to your family. She will be missed!

Cora Gomez (friend)

Entered January 14, 2025 from Toronto, ON

I will miss my dear friend Monika. Wherever you may be I hope you find peace, love and happiness. I hope there are unlimited sticky notes, butter croissants, lush gardens, tennis, and an amazing glass of good wine and/or beer to toast a life well lived.

Condolences to her family.

Emily Shapiro (Friend)

Entered January 14, 2025 from TORONTO

Monika became a dear friend of mine through tennis at the Granite Club. She was a fabulous player with amazing slice serves and angled volleys (which were tough to return!). She was a great storyteller and was so much fun to be around (including many hours together with the "tennis gals" at the Granite Club's 1875 pub). During our visits to Evergreen Brickworks she delighted in showing me her favourite foods and artisans. I also loved the tours of her magnificent garden where she taught me the names and needs of many plants and flowers. Monika was so kind, caring and generous.

I miss my friend Monika so much. Sending my love and deepest condolences to her family and friends. I know Monika is up in Heaven - appreciating the beauty, smiling and making new friends (and connecting with old ones again), sharing her knowledge and teaching...and definitely getting things organized!

David Harding (Friend and tennis partner)

Entered January 14, 2025 from Toronto

We will all miss you and your backhand volley at the net.

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