In memory of

Marjorie Louise Goldring

August 25, 1929 -  April 4, 2018

Marjorie Louise Goldring (née Walwyn)

Louise passed away peacefully in her sleep on Wednesday, April 4th. Born in Toronto to Marjorie Edith (née Bone) and John Pearse Walwyn, she was predeceased by her beloved husband Ralph in 1999, her niece Shelley in 2015 and her sister Gilda in 2016. She is survived by her sister Sue Winchell, brother John Walwyn, stepmother Ronnie Walwyn, and many cousins, nieces and nephews.

Louise leaves her daughter Cathie and husband Craig Bowden and son Stephen and wife Barbara, who will miss her dynamic personality and lifelong advice. She will be missed by her grandchildren, John Bowden (Heather Gottlieb), Carolyn (Mark Smith), Lisa (Jeremie Landry) and Eric Goldring. Louise was delighted to meet her great-granddaughter and continuing namesake, Olivia Louise who was born in July, 2017.

Louise was raised in Toronto, attended Whitney Public School then Branksome Hall where she met many lifelong friends and continued a long relationship with the school as the 1948 year rep. She attended the University of Western Ontario for Secretarial Sciences and soon after met Ralph through mutual friends on a blind date. After a whirlwind romance, they married on October 4th, 1952 and soon welcomed Cathie in 1954 and Stephen in 1955. They lived in Toronto until Ralph was transferred with CIMCO to Regina for 3 years and then Winnipeg for 8 years before being moved back to Toronto in 1970.

Louise was very involved as a volunteer wherever she lived. She worked with Marina Creations (a volunteer organization in Regina), the Women’s Committee of the Winnipeg Symphony Orchestra and the Women’s Committee of the Canadian Opera Company in Toronto. These involvements were central to her love of classical music and especially opera which she started listening to at age 10 with her father. She rarely missed a Saturday Afternoon at the Opera live from the Met in New York for over 75 years!

Louise also had a love of travel. She accompanied her Aunt Marion on tours overseas and spent a year in London working at Ontario House. She was presented to the King and Queen while there which was a tremendous honour and sparked an ongoing interest in the Royal Family. Louise, on her own or with Ralph, travelled to England, Scotland, Ireland, France, Austria, Germany, Italy, Greece, Egypt, Australia, and New Zealand as well as to California and Florida and within Canada. This enjoyment of travel was passed along to her children and grandchildren. In her final conversation with Cathie the day before she died, she remembered when she was in Greece many years ago when she was told her grandson John was there that day.

Gran, as she was known to her grandchildren, spent much time taking them to the theatre, concerts and ballet, always trying to encourage their love of and interest in the arts. She talked about her travels and showed them art and travel books and movies whenever they were a captive audience!

In her later years, Louise compiled a history of not only her family but also of Ralph’s family. A double sided page of photos and captions representing ten years of family history was presented to each family member at Christmas. She also enjoyed taping then recording movies and music from the TV. She had accumulated hundreds of CD’s and DVD’s by the time she moved out of her condo.

Louise fell and broke her hip in 2015 and that led to a slow decline in her physical and mental capabilities. She spent most of the last two years at Humber Heights in Etobicoke where she received increasing levels of care by respectful and caring staff. Stephen, who lived fairly close by, was a regular visitor, helping with electronic issues and providing her with necessities and cookies! Her final months were a struggle and Stephen and I are grateful her suffering has ended. A family celebration of Louise’s life will be held at a later date.

Rest In Peace Mom. You are loved and will be missed by many.

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Genevieve and Murray Grant (Murray shared aunt Eleanor Weir and uncle Arthur Weir with Louise)

Entered April 28, 2018 from Marian Gardens #330 at 2530-25th Avenue, Regina S4S 4E6

We have memories of the Regina years when Ralph and his refrigeration team froze the Blairmore sand in new potash mines, sinking shafts a mile below ground in Saskatchewan during the Sixties. When Ralph visited here years later, Murray arranged with one of the mine managers for a private, personal tour of an operating mine. We enjoyed our visits with Louise and Ralph in Florida, sharing concern for his health. Today we live near the Goldring home on Bell Street in Hillsdale. Cheers to Cathie and Stephen!

Gudrun Hödl 

Entered April 30, 2018 from Austria

We are with you !

Tanya Pimenoff (Friend)

Entered April 30, 2018 from Toronto

Dear Cathie and family,
What a beautiful tribute to a lovely lady. I shall miss my many chats over the years with Louise. She was a devoted 1948 class rep who went the extra mile to make sure everyone kept in touch. Her classmates will remember her fondly as they gather for reunion in June. My thoughts are with you.

Graeme Laing (Nephew)

Entered May 1, 2018 from Toronto

To Stephen and Cathy and all the Walwyn Family, my thoughts are with you all; So may memories. A lovely tribute to your Mum. G.

John Bone (Cousin of Louise)

Entered May 20, 2018 from England

Dear Cathie and Stephen

So sorry to hear that your Mom has died, although I realise it will have come as a blessing that she no longer has to struggle with the pains and indignities of age and infirmity. And it must too have been very hard on both of you and your own families to witness and cope with the deterioration in her health over the years.

You hardly need reminding that she was a big personality! For me she was the principal link between my life in these little islands off the NW coast of mainland Europe and my paternal heritage in that great landmass you inhabit 3,000 miles away. I adored her mother (your grandmother), who died much too young. When David and I were small, Louise was the first of the three sisters to stay with our family in England (on their way to rather more interesting destinations on the Continent, I suspect!). When I visited Canada for several weeks in 1973, largely to stay with the Weirs in Muskoka, it was she who organised my time in Toronto - almost down to the hour! And I know I let her down by refusing to dress up as an Egyptian slave for some Aida-themed function: but I have to admit I'm still completely unrepentant.

She and your father stayed with me in London some time in the 1980s. They arrived on the red-eye flight one Sunday morning and, after little more than a quick wash-up and a coffee, she had dragged us both out to visit Kensington Palace. I don't know which of the two of us men was more shocked.

She represented the Canadian side of the family at Sarann's and my wedding in Ireland in 1992, which I regarded as quite an honour. And she looked, as ever, very glamorous. I think she then covered half the sights to be seen in the south of the country in short order, followed breathlessly and at a respectful distance by my sister Buffy.

You (Cathie) and Carolyn accompanied her on her last visit here, when I think her ambition finally exceeded her capability for coping with extensive touring (not to mention lack of lifts, escalators and the like).

But what a terrific advertisement for keeping up family ties. And exemplified by her book, which will last for generations as a source of reference and reminder. (I actually used it a few weeks ago to track down the position in the family of a long dead and pretty remote relation. There he was, and there was even a photo of him.)

I hope you will be able to look back with pleasure and pride on the better times when she was in her health and strength. Do let me know in due course what the funeral arrangements are, and whether flowers or a charitable donation would be appropriate.

Sarann joins me in sending sympathy and love,

John

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