In memory of

Margaret Anne Fraser

November 12, 1927 -  June 4, 2020

In 1927 Flappers danced the Charleston, Lindbergh flew solo over the Atlantic, the Old Age Pension Act was passed, and the Toronto St. Patrick’s became the Maple Leafs. Most important of all was the birth of Margaret Anne to Flora and Archie Garnham in Toronto. Margaret joined her parents and siblings, Scottie, Bessie, and Jean and lived in an apartment over the store on Queen Street where Archie owned and operated a shoe repair business. They moved into their house at 127 Ashdale shortly after the fifth and final child, Dorothy, was born in 1932. Margaret and her siblings attended Highfield Gospel Hall and went to Duke of Connaught Public School. I believe she attended Eastern High School of Commerce and began working as a secretary after graduation.
She met Sandy Fraser due to their mutual fondness for bowling and love blossomed. They were married on July 16, 1949 at Rhodes Avenue United Church (now Glen Rhodes). They lived happily for many years on Langley Avenue in Toronto.
December 1960, April 1961, and July 1961 had to have been one of the most traumatic and upsetting periods of her life, and indeed for the entire family. Her brother, Scottie passed away first, then her beloved Sandy, followed by her father, Archie.
Some time after Sandy’s death Margaret moved back to Ashdale and lived with her mother. During those years she worked in several offices and finally settled at Electrolux. She also drove Sandy’s car, a 1960 Chevrolet Biscayne.
After Flora’s death in 1982, Margaret inherited the house on Ashdale.
She then spent a great deal of time with her sister, Jean, and her husband, George. Sadly, in 1990 George passed away and afterwards the sisters grew even closer. Also, in the 1990s, Margaret retired from Electrolux, sold the car to an antique car collector, and she and Jean began to spend more and more time with their, by then widowed, sister, Dorothy.
Jean passed away in 2007 and within a few years Margaret’s health began to suffer also. Nevertheless, she was determined to keep her independence. She took care of herself, her finances, and her house, and kept an eye on everyone else too. But time waits for no one, not even Margaret Fraser. Her health failed noticeably in 2015 and by early 2016 she was in the hospital. While there she lost the last of her siblings, Dorothy.
Having outlived the relatives of her generation and not having children of her own, her nine nieces and nephews did their best to care for her. After a year in hospital and rehab. she moved into a retirement residence where she settled in and learned to accept help. In 2018, after 86 years of Garnhams living there, 127 Ashdale was sold.
The summer of 2019 saw a great decline in her health, but she held on, until late spring 2020. After two more weeks in hospital Margaret passed away on June 4th, when she finally succumbed to age and illness.
Rest well Aunt Margaret. We love you.

Guestbook 

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Rita Lee 

Entered June 8, 2020

Dear Margaret, I so enjoyed our Saturday morning chats. Thanks again for all your advice and help when I started at Electrolux. You will be truly missed.

Ross and Irene Clyde (Nephew)

Entered June 8, 2020 from Unionville, Ontario

Her Bright Eyes didn't miss anything.
Rest in Peace Aunt Margaret.

Alice Cook (fAMILY FRIEND)

Entered June 9, 2020

VERY NICE WRITE UP ABOUT MARGARET'S LIFE. I HOPE SHE DIED PEACEFULLY.HER NEPHEW JOHN BURTON WAS A BIG HELP LOOKING AFTER HER & HER AFFAIRS. REST IN PEACE MARGARET.

Bobby Burton (Great Nephew)

Entered June 9, 2020 from OSHAWA

Aunt Margaret will be deeply missed. She was always lovely to see on Christmas and holidays and welcomed you with a warm smile. I'll be sad not to see her this year, but I'll keep your memories by my heart.

Lots of love
Bobby

Edythe Shand (Fellow member of Glen Rhodes United Church)

Entered June 9, 2020 from Toronto

My most vivid memory of Margaret is those beautiful big blue eyes. Jean and Margaret always attended church together and sat in the same pew, not too close and not too far from the front. I lived on Ashdale in the same block when i first moved to Toronto and later as I took on more duties at the church I would visit Margaret. One day I asked her why she took the bus up Coxwell to Gerrard, when it was only a block to walk. She said the hill was too much. i thought, I don't remember the walk up Ashdale to be so bad. So as I walked back I took notice and yes it was steeper that I had noticed before. It's amazing what a few years can do.

Life Stories 

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Nancy (Niece)

Entered June 7, 2020

At the house on Ashdale, days after Aunt Margaret retrieved the last things she wanted at her retirement home, I found two items I couldn't bring myself to leave for the junk men to take away. They were bowling trophies. I was surprised to find the plaques had Aunt Margaret's and Uncle Sandy's names on them. Later I asked her about them. I never did get that story, but the one she related was perhaps even better.
She told me about the night she and Uncle Sandy met. Apparently, both of them had been bowling with their own friends and all of them happened to take the same streetcar home. Aunt Margaret's friends exited first and she was left with the other passengers, including Sandy and his friends. Being silly, young men, they were acting foolishly tossing around their bags of bowling shoes. At some point Sandy's aim was poor and he hit Margaret with one of the bags. He went to her to apologize and they began to chat.
They both got off at her stop and he accompanied her home, to see that she was alright. It seems their romance began that night and progressed and eventually they married. I don't know if they regularly bowled after that, but it was a common pass-time in those days.
All the pictures I've seen of Aunt Margaret during her married years show her smiling. After Uncle Sandy passed away she didn't smile all that much anymore, but she was smiling as she told me the story.
I only heard it that once, and she wasn't all that well at the time. There's no one else left to remember and no way to fact-check it, but I think I've got it essentially right. In reality it doesn't actually matter. It's a good story and it made her happy to tell it.
Some people tell their children when they're afraid of thunder not to worry, that it's only people in heaven bowling. If that's right, and if you notice in the future that the thunder you hear seems even a tiny bit louder than before, don't worry, it's just Team Fraser back in action.

for the Eastern Star, Fidelity Chapter 

Entered June 10, 2020

in November, 1979, Margaret, and her sister Jean, became members of the Eastern Star, Birchcliffe Chapter #103. (Later consolidated with Fidelity Chapter #33.)
They both received their 25 year pins in 2004.
Margaret was a member in good standing at the time of her passing.
They are still fondly remembered by other members and a small remembrance ceremony will be held for Margaret once the Chapter can meet again.
Condolences to the family.

Linda (Niece)

Entered June 10, 2020 from Toronto

My favourite story isn't one from my childhood or from a Christmas dinner but, from an outing just a few years ago.
One day after Aunt Margaret had been in her retirement home for a short time Nancy and I went for a visit. Aunt Margaret was looking forward to it because we had a busy day of running errands. She was very meticulous in how she sorted out her banking and after she had her hair done and felt more "normal" the day out was topped off with an exciting trip to the local Shoppers Drug Mart!! Watching her cruise up and down all the aisles carefully looking at all of the items on the shelves and picking out what she needed to buy seemed like the highlight of the day. After making her purchases and getting back into my car we drove Aunt Margaret back to her home. We thought we had been clever and got her back in time to enjoy dinner with her new friends as we would leave and go back to our evening plans. When we asked if she wanted us to bring her downstairs for dinner Aunt Margaret looked at us with those beautiful blue eyes sparkling and a sly grin on her face and she simply said "I've already told them I won't be here for dinner,, we're going out for dinner!! In that moment, with those words and the look on her face Aunt Margaret did what few have managed to do, she rendered the two of us speechless!! Knowing there was nothing else to do we shrugged our shoulders and said ok! Downstairs and outside to climb back in the car for one more stop in a day that Aunt Margaret had planned her own secret agenda! She knew she had us and we wouldnt say no to her.
Well played Aunt Margaret, well played!

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