In memory of

Julie Hon-Lai Chan (Choy) 陳蔡漢莉夫人

June 10, 1949 -  February 7, 2025

Julie Hon-Lai Chan (née Choy) was born on June 10, 1949, in Chung Shan, China. She was the second of four children. She met her future husband Erik on May 31, 1971, during a rowboat outing with friends in Sha Tin.

Julie moved to England around 1973 and married Erik on November 19, 1974. Their son Aaron was born in 1976, followed by their daughter Anthea in 1977. The family immigrated to Toronto, Canada, in 1978. Julie worked as a Registered Nurse at Providence Healthcare for many years.

Julie was very engaged and involved in her family’s lives, especially those of her children. She drove them to swimming and piano lessons, attended school concerts and graduations, and signed them up for sports and arts camps. She and Erik took them on road trips to national parks, zoos and museums across Canada and the United States, as they believed in giving their children valuable life experiences.

Julie loved to cook, and food was her favourite way of expressing love to others. She prepared breakfast, lunch, after-school snacks and dinner. During Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Lunar New Year, she and her siblings would take turns hosting large family gatherings. Anytime her children had friends over for a birthday party or sleepover, she fed them well. If someone was ill, she would make soup and congee, and nurse them back to health.

Julie had a wide network of friends. She enjoyed calling them during her free time, and was the one who remembered everyone's birthdays. Even as her long battle with Parkinson's Disease took its toll, Julie continued to provide encouragement and advice to others.

Julie was a dutiful and caring daughter, sibling, wife, mother, aunt and grandmother. We are forever grateful for her presence in, and impact on, our lives.

Julie is pre-deceased by Erik (2023) and survived by her siblings (Charles, John, Amy), children (Aaron, Anthea), and grandchildren (Llewellyn, Corwynn, Isaac).

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Mon Sheong Foundation.

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Khadijah Rawji (Friend of Anthea)

Entered February 12, 2025 from Richmond Hill

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Thinking of you during this difficult time. I hope you find comfort in the memories you shared.

Pauline SZE Reybet-Degat (Saint Francis Canossa Convent _ Hong Kong)

Entered February 12, 2025 from Paris, France

Julie, I still remember the last time we saw each other, it was at a dinner for the SFCC gathering in Toronto which was followed by a river cruise, my husband and I came from France and there were many SFCC girls from Vancouver. You were not feeling well that day but you had insisted to come by to say hello to all of us ! We were all so touched by your !
Julie, rest in Peace, we will never forget your kindness and consideration to everyone who had crossed path with you.
Pauline Sze

Mary Chan (Long time friend, classmate in high school.)

Entered February 13, 2025 from Portland, Oregon

Treasure our 50+ years of friendship.
Grateful that I could visit last month.

Margaret Carmo ( Margaret Lee) (High school classmate)

Entered February 13, 2025 from Richmond,B.C. Canada

My deep condolence to Aaron and family. May Julie be in the embrace of God,

Julie is a faithful friend among the classmates. She made an effort to keep me connected after many years of no communication on my part. Whenever she passed by Vancouver, she called me to arrange gatherings in the ‘80s and ‘90s.The last time to see her in person was in September, 2019.

Many of her forthright conversation and behaviours have remained with me all these years.

Julie, it is a pleasure to be your friend for so many decades. You have been in my prayers.



William To (Cousin)

Entered February 13, 2025 from Toronto

Our deepest condolence. God bless.

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