In memory of

Julian Sammy

October 30, 1970 -  March 17, 2021

James Julian Valmiki Sammy
October 30, 1970 - March 17, 2021

Julian Sammy, son, nephew, uncle, brother, brother-in-law, father, husband and friend passed away on the night of March 17th at the age of 50. Julian was also a debater, critical thinker, scientist, DnD Master, creator of music and word, and traveller.

He is survived by his wife Kathleen Barret, daughter Livé and her mothers, Anita Wiklem and Holly Liddell, mother Kathy (Inglis) Sammy, sister Joy Sammy, brother in law Hugo Bohórquez, and nephew Mateo.

Predeceased by his father Howard Sammy (2010), uncles Rex (Denise) Inglis (2000) and Jack (Irene) (2018) Inglis, and Donald (Chris) Sammy (2020).

He had a 6 year ‘relationship’ with cancer. I won’t call it a battle because he did not approach it that way. He was well aware of all the potential outcomes of his situation and knew that he could leave us quickly and did not have much time left.

His passing was at home, was quick and his incredible life partner Kathleen was by his side. He will be missed and remembered by the Barret, Beaulieu, Svenning, Inglis, Sammy and Sabzali families in the USA, Canada, Norway and Trinidad.

He asked all of you to ‘do good deeds’ and I will emphasize that here. We each have the power to make someone else’s day better be it a stranger or someone close to us. Julian can still make the lives of others better through us...so let’s do that.

There will be more news to come on services arrangements and donations can be made to The Sunnybrook Foundation or the Temmy Latner Centre for Palliative Care

Guestbook 

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Denyse Allen (Hasmatali) (Family friend)

Entered March 27, 2020 from Delray Beach, Florida

Julian will be missed by all.

Ken Rajkumar (Family friend)

Entered March 27, 2020 from Canada

"There are no words" for a time like this. We followed Julian's notes in awe of his strength and resilience, that came so much from Howard and Kathy. Deepest sympathy to Kathy and Joy, and other family and friends.

Peter White (Friend)

Entered March 27, 2020 from Mississauga

What I remember most about Julian, was he was always genuinely interest in the experiences of others.

Karin Helen Auran (Friend)

Entered March 28, 2020 from Norway

I met you a few couple of times and you were always so interested and present and a great father to Live❤️
Yo were loved by so many people and you will be missed deeply🌹

Rest In Peace ❤️

Indy Mitra (IIBA and BMO colleagues)

Entered March 28, 2020 from Toronto

Dear Kathleen,
Damn! You and your family must be so shaken with Julian’s death - I am and I haven’t seen you for a few years.
I am so grateful to have known both of you for a solid forever, as we survived BMO and built IIBA together.

I am even more grateful that our sweet Julian is no longer suffering and counting spoons. He was the bravest, strongest person I know, sharing histrials and tribulations.

I am happy you were able to support one another and to have such a strong family and friends.

I remember the first time I met Julian - via email where he took me to task for using excess punctuation, of all things. Every time I catch myself adding a couple of periods and exclamation points, I hear him saying - stop

Take strength from Livé and her Moms, your family and friends and dogs! Julian is watching over you with his Dad, your Dad with a full steel pan chorus in flight!

Please call, email etc if you need an ear or help! I will always be here for you, honey

My love Indy

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