In memory of

Isobel (Bette) Ruth Seabrook

April 7, 1931 -  March 13, 2025

Isobel (Bette) Ruth Seabrook (nee Cameron) on March 13, 2025, in her 93rd year. Predeceased by her former husband, Victor Melville Seabrook of Toronto. Survived by her son Richard and his wife Susan, of Kensington, Maryland, U.S.A, her sons Peter and Timothy, both of Toronto and her grandchildren, Malcolm, Ian, Helena and Trevor. Predeceased by her sister, June Salter (Bill) of Ancaster, ON.

Bette, as she was affectionately referred to, was born April 7, 1931, in North Bay, Ontario to Irish (Alexander) and Scottish (Margaret) parents from Belfast, Ireland and Ayrshire, Scotland, where her no-nonsense demeanour was nurtured and fostered. During the 1950's and living in Toronto with her sister June while studying nursing at Women’s College Hospital, she met her former husband, Vic, on a double blind-date who was a student at Osgoode Hall. They ditched one another's companion for the evening, establishing their partnership as an unpredictable couple to be reckoned with. Bette, a diminutive woman with a mane of wavy auburn hair, had an infectious personality, wit and an easy smile which was a magnet that drew people to her either by chance, or those many friends she kept for life. Like many young women of her generation, she abandoned her career as a nurse to start a family, becoming a “homemaker” and hostess extraordinaire to support her husband's burgeoning law practice, while raising their three rambunctious sons. She attended Grace Church on the Hill, where she also taught Sunday school. She was also involved in many philanthropic causes notably being the Chairperson of the Toronto Symphony Women’s Committee, where with her husband’s support, they were instrumental in contributing and raising funds to the building of Toronto’s Roy Thomson Hall.

In the late 1970’s, she became a self-proclaimed feminist and re-entered the workforce and "turned the tables" as a successful salesperson of women's chic, designer clothing in Yorkville. She was often happiest as a world traveler (sometimes with her husband on his business trips), where she developed her exceptional taste in art and decor. This was often reflected in the many different and eclectic family and vacation homes that she renovated, lived and sold in Toronto, Jackson’s Point, Denver and Palm Beach where her keen eye for interior decorating was often admired and copied. Living this privileged and glamorous lifestyle, she remained a dedicated and loyal mother to her sons' challenges while instilling in them her values of compassion, honesty, and integrity.

When her marriage ended, and having survived cancer, she travelled, decorated, took up needlepoint and remained a voracious reader. She was often found in various bookstores, complete with New York Times clippings in hand, searching for the latest fiction and nonfiction titles which she devoured in days. Noted for her sophisticated fashion sense, she was often seen in a colorful, wide-brimmed hat walking one of her beloved dogs, Chloe and later Henry around the streets of Yorkville. Her love of the performing arts continued over the years which she supported by her attendance at the Toronto Film Festival, occasional trips to Stratford and Shaw Festivals, CanStage and Mirvish theatre productions and the National Ballet of Canada which was complemented by her volunteering for many years at their store, Paper Things.

In her later years, navigating the various stages of Alzheimer's, she survived the first and devastating wave of COVID. She always remained the stoic fighter, and the epitome of grace and kindness to everyone she encountered. Her son Tim, who remained her constant and fierce advocate during this time is truly appreciative and thankful to all the wonderful staff and care she received over the years while at The Claremont and The Isabel and Arthur Meighen Manor. A visitation will occur on Wednesday, March 19 from 1:00-2:30 p.m. at Mount Pleasant Funeral Center (375 Mount Pleasant Rd., Toronto) followed by a private funeral. In lieu of flowers, and if you wish, please donate to the Alzheimer's Society of Toronto and/or The Salvation Army of Canada.

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Martha Mason (old friend of Tim's)

Entered March 14, 2025 from London, Ontario

What a wonderful life she lived and what a profound loss to those she leaves behind. Tim, as her devoted and hands-on son, your dedication to your mother and her increasing needs while succeeding in the leadership roles in your education career required an energy and love that was truly awesome. To Tim and to the rest of the family, please accept my condolences. - Martha-

Anita Duic (Tim’s friend)

Entered March 14, 2025 from Toronro

Sincere condolences on the loss of your mother.

Sherry Freund (Friend of Tim’s)

Entered March 14, 2025 from Waterloo

I will miss all your fun Facebook updates on Bette’s adventures! Now dealing with my Mom's own Alzheimer’s journey, I will be reaching out for more insights from you in the coming months. You were a great son for your Mom. So sorry for your loss.

Daniela Cataldo (Tim’s friend)

Entered March 15, 2025 from Toronto

Thank you for sharing your love and precious memories throughout the years with your SGI family.

SCOTT DEWARE (Friend)

Entered March 15, 2025 from PORT HOPE

Dear Tim,

I was so deeply saddened to read in today’s Globe that your mother, Bette, had passed away. She was such a lovely woman, and I will always cherish the memories of her. I remember sitting in her beautiful living room in the ‘bird cage’ on Edmund Gate, and when I complimented her on how gorgeous the house was, she simply said, “Not bad for a nurse from North Bay.” That kind of humble charm was so uniquely hers, and I’ll forever remember her fondly for it.

She truly was one-of-a-kind, and it was a privilege to have known her. My deepest condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.

With sympathy,

Scott DeWare

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