In memory of

Helen Soo

January 1, 1935 - March 17, 2023

Dear Friend,

My mother passed away peacefully at home on March 17, 2023.

She was 88.

Everyone loved having heart-to-heart chats with Mom. She was a great listener and trusted confidante.

In February 2021, Mom was admitted to Michael Garron Hospital for colon cancer surgery. A couple of months of chemotherapy followed. Then came nausea. The nausea was ongoing until Mom’s death. She took the nausea in stride and never complained. She had an indomitable spirit.

In August 2022, Mom was diagnosed as having Stage 4 colon cancer as the cancer had spread to her lungs.

In January 2023, Mom had a fall at home. Prior to the fall, Mom’s legs were becoming weaker. After the fall, she could no longer walk.

Before my dad passed away on February 4, 2022, he wondered aloud about what would happen to Mom after his death. I assured him that I would look after Mom.

I kept my word. I did my best to make sure that Mom was comfortable. I took on caregiving duties and some PSW work. I came to know Mom well.

Before Mom passed away, I got to hug her and tell her that ‘I loved her.’ We were never a demonstrative family.

When my parents were alive, I thought of the three of us as The Three Musketeers as we were an inseparable unit. I will carry on my parents’ legacy of love and kindness.

Thank you to friends, family and healthcare professionals who supported Mom and me during her journey. It was an honour to serve Mom during her time of need.

An in memoriam donation may be made to the Michael Garron Hospital as this was Mom’s favourite charity.

I will miss Mom.

May she rest in peace.

I love this Confucius quote that resonates with me:
“We have two lives; the second begins when we realize we only have one.” - Confucius

Love,
Jamie

Guestbook

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STEPHEN JONES (Friend)

Entered March 20, 2023 from toronto

Hi Jamie,

Sorry to hear about the passing of your mother.

May your memory of her stay with you always
as I know you were a loving son.

Steve

Edna Mayer (Sister)

Entered March 20, 2023

Dear Helen,
I often think back about the time we grew up in Jamaica and will always remember you as "Ethlyn"
Love and miss you,
Edna
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Don't grieve for me now, for I’m free
I’m following the path God laid for me
I took His hand when I heard His call
I turned my back and left it all
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play
Tasks left undone must stay that way
I’ve found peace at the close of the day
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy
Of friends shared, a laugh, a kiss,
Oh yes, these things too I will miss,
Be not burdened with times of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow,
My life’s been full, I’ve savored much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch,
Lift up your hearts and peace to these,
God wanted me now, He set me free.

Francisca Hsieh (Friend)

Entered March 20, 2023 from Markham

So sorry for your loss Jamie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. RIP Mrs. Soo

Jessica Meditskos (Friends/neighbor)

Entered March 21, 2023 from Finland

My condolences to you and your family. Your mom was such a nice sweet lady and will be missed.

Mae and Gord (friend)

Entered March 21, 2023 from Sault Ste Marie

May she rest in peace and be with her beloved husband.

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