In memory of

Gordon Joseph Detlor

May 14, 1945 -  June 14, 2020

Gordon Joseph Detlor born May 14th 1945 and now with his new bestie Jesus since June 14th, 2020.

Gordon/Gord/Dad/Grandad will be missed by his loving wife, Norma, his children Kevin (Tara) and Kelly; grandchildren Bryan, Quinn, and Nathan; his sisters Betty (Dominic) and Donna; and his many nieces and nephews.

Gordon had a love of family, gardens, games, and sports.

Gordon was an avid sports fiend. He enjoyed watching and listening to hockey (the “make believes”), golf, baseball, tennis, and bowling. When he wasn’t watching/listening to sports on t.v., he enjoyed playing hockey as a goaltender and thought he was great. The scores proved otherwise. Lol. Bowling was Gordon’s passion. He loved the game so much that when he wasn’t at the alley, he would put on his bowling shoes, take his bowling ball and pins, and set up a “lane” in the dining room to practice. He only stopped after he inadvertently put a big hole in the wall. After that he used skittle bowling, and Wii bowling to keep his skills sharp for the game.

He worked as an Environmental Services Worker at Centenary Hospital for 17 years and frequently bent the ear of the CEO to advise him of ways to improve processes in the hospital.

Gordon cherished his times together with family, enjoying the chitchat of conversation, and an occasional cold beer. He was very competitive and used Jedi-mind tricks in order to knock others off their game while playing Marble Chase, Euchre, and Wizard. This usually resulted in a win for him.

An avid gardener, Gordon spent many waking hours tending to the extensive flower and vegetable garden which provided wonderful food for his family. The electric fence around the garden created many hours of entertainment. He created beautiful walkways, and a water fountain made from old bowling balls. He enjoyed the act of fishing even though the actual fish remained elusive. His favorite foods were Aunt Betty’s “Chicken with Italian dressing”, and “red sauce on everything”.

Gordon found the Lord later in life, attending services with Norma and sharing his experience with anyone who would sit and listen. Never afraid of strangers, many of his new friends were ones that he had met at the Tim Hortons after church service. Challenged by decreased sight, limited mobility, and a chronic blood condition, that didn’t stop him from reaching out and creating connections. We know that he’s in heaven now, dancing with the Lord to his favorite song “He touched me”.

Gordon we miss your mischievous smile and sense of humour. We love you.

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Donna & Robin Budgen ("Outlaws" - We share grandsons.)

Entered June 17, 2020 from Brighton ON

We see characteristics of Gord in our grandchildren -- the competitiveness, the impish humour, and the love of card games. His passion for gardening has passed on to Kevin whose garden produces some yummy vegetables of which we occasionally reap the bounty.
We look forward to the time when we can all gather and share our stories of Gord.
Hugs!

Dominic and Lesley Picciottoli (Nephew)

Entered June 17, 2020 from Ajax

We are very sorry to hear of uncle Gord's passing. I do remember him being very good and competitive at skittle bowling when we played as kids. He will be fondly remembered.

Deborah Elsmore (Friend)

Entered June 17, 2020 from Oshawa

Dear Norma and Family,
My deepest condolences to you all. While losing Gordon and missing his presence with you must be devastating, we know he’s just moved on a little sooner than us. I know he is rejoicing and dancing with Jesus! I am keeping you all in my prayers and I know our Good Lord will sustain you and strengthen you. God’s peace and blessing on you all!
Much love,
Debbie

Kyra and Sarah Gerber (Friends)

Entered June 17, 2020 from Toronto

Dear Norma, Kelly and family,
We are so sorry for your loss, you will be in our thoughts as you celebrate Gord‘s life, and mourn his passing.
Much love and sincere condolences,
Kyra and Sarah

Lawrence A Balanko (brother in law & sister in law)

Entered June 17, 2020 from ANACORTES

We certainly had a wonderful vacation with Gordon and Norma in 2015.

Good memories were made on the trip from Calgary through the mountains. The stay at Chataway Lake was a hoot. It was an eventful road trip to Anacortes, visiting people and places along the way. We will cherish our memories and the fun we had together in the three weeks we shared.

Lorne & Elizabeth

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