In memory of

Gary Krawford

March 23, 1941 -  December 9, 2020


Survived by siblings Sharon Griffith (John) and Ken Krawford (Gail) and their families, and a myriad of friends. Predeceased by parents, Stanley and Lillian. Gary attended Wayne State University, Detroit, and began his acting career at the Stratford Festival in 1960. With his winnings from the Guthrie Award for the most promising young actor, he studied theatre in London, England. He returned to Canada and had adventures flying in small planes to various theaters in the north, then spent time in Halifax, roasting lobsters on the beach, and starring in the Neptune Theater’s inaugural season. Off to New York, he played Matt in the Fantasticks off-broadway, and the juvenile lead in several Broadway productions. Gary spent many years crisscrossing America by train, famously playing Bobby in Company opposite Elaine Stritch. He was justifiably proud of the recording of his final performance of Being Alive at The Kennedy Centre. He spent some time in Hollywood and hobnobbed with the stars, but he returned to New York, then Toronto, joining many tours and several seasons at the Shaw festival, and even back at Stratford, where it all began. Gary was a storyteller and raconteur to the end. In his later years, he shared his life on stage in cabarets all over the city. Gary had a life well lived and will be sorely missed. We know he’s enjoying a cigarette and martini, and singing cabaret with the angels.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Actors Fund of Canada https://afchelps.ca/donatenow/

Guestbook 

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Carl and Tricia Courneya (Acquaintance)

Entered December 15, 2020 from Toronto

I knew Gary through my work as a contractor. We got to know each other as I renovated his bathrooms. I have fond memories our coming up with the concept for his “all black bathroom!” He regaled me with stories as I worked, which I so enjoyed and we shared an off coloured joke or two.
He was an amazing man and I admired him greatly.
I’m having a standing ovation just for you Gary,
Carl.

Sharon Griffith (Sister)

Entered December 15, 2020 from Hampstead, NC

A sad fact of life is that you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. While we were more than ten years apart in age and led very different lives, Gary was the best brother a girl could ask for. Looking back through old files, I remembered that he arranged for ballet lessons for me when I was 6, even though the entire family recognized that I was the biggest clutz on earth. When the family visited him in SanFrancisco, he carved out time for just the two of us to ride the trolley cars and shop for a fancy red satin shirt and bell bottoms for my Christmas gift. How many kids had a brother fly them to New York for their 8th grade graduation? I remember the Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, the Rockettes, and my first (but certainly not last) visit to a bar. I remember mom sobbing at the end of his performances in Detroit. She always said he must have been mixed up in the hospital, because such a talent could certainly never come from our family. I came across his letters today, written at all different stages in my life, warning me about drugs, boys, and, not becoming “Hilda House Wife.” He wanted to be an older, nonjudgmental friend, but also asked me to take it easy on mom and dad as they got older. I am so grateful to Gary’s “other family” - his many friends who are helping us get through this loss. Their love and admiration for Gary, not just for his talent, but for his spirit and generosity, are so gratifying to hear. Thanks to all of you...you know who you are! My god, I was lucky to have a brother who loved me and my kids so very much. I’m going to miss him more than I thought possible. Thank you so much for everything, Gary.

Larry Breker (Friend)

Entered December 15, 2020 from Toronto

I first met Gary when he moved to Toronto (1983??).
We met when he came to see my apartment which I wanted to sub-let. Gary decided on the spot it was what he wanted and the deal was done! What we didn’t know was that was the moment a long and very dear friendship was to begin. Over the years, we’ve shared so much fun, laughter, and good times. To mention only a few qualities, Gary was a fine person, a wonderful cook, a gifted actor and singer, and loyal friend. He will be dearly missed.

John Devorski (Close friends!)

Entered December 15, 2020 from Guelph, Ontario

Miss him terribly....love him so much!

Grant Tilly (Friend)

Entered December 15, 2020 from Calgary

Gary was always so kind to me, as a friend, and actor, and also as a songwriter starting out. I loved running into him in the street, seeing him at one of his cabarets, and hearing his stories. He was so generous to me with his time! Gary, you will be missed.

Life Stories 

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Steven Gallagher (Friend)

Entered December 14, 2020

Gary told the best stories. I have hundreds, (literally) but one of my favorites is the time Hal Prince called Gary in a panic. The national tour of Side By Side By Sondheim was opening in LA, and Larry Kert couldn't go on. Could Gary fly out to LA and learn the role in twelve hours?! Yes, yes he could. They shoved him onstage in a tux, and of course, he slayed.

Gary loved show business, and he loved talking about show business. It was his life for sixty years. His first professional contract was at Stratford in 1960, and the next year he was playing in the famous Michael Langham directed, Love's Labour's Lost. He didn't return to university, because he had too many gigs! Bussing across Canada with the Canadian Players, the inaugural season of Neptune Theatre, Ding Dong at the Dell with Tom Kneebone! And he kept all those contracts, he showed them to me last week!!
Once Gary got to NYC, there was no stopping him. He spent one summer playing Matt in the Fantasticks Off-broadway--($100 a week) meeting a young Liza Minelli who was rehearsing the tour, so they went out to lunch. There is a beautiful picture in Life Magazine of Gary in this show, it's the first thing you saw when you walked into his apartment. Gary starred in two infamous Broadway flops where he played the male juvenile lead (his words). He loved telling me about Pousse Cafe which closed after three performances. ("What a mess!") And he had great George Abbott stories from The Education of HYMAN KAPLAN. His New York exploits have no rival. Gary was young and beautiful and he LIVED. And he knew absolutely everyone. Picture it, Gary floating in a pool at someone's Hampton's summer home with Kander and Ebb. They are dishing about their next project, Cabaret. Fred Ebb wrote his outgoing answering machine message. He LIVED!

Of all his accomplishments, Gary was most proud of his association with Sondheim. He was Bobby in the national tour of Company, and he played opposite Elaine Stritch for most of that run. So many stories. So many martinis. He kept a recording of his final performance of Being Alive and The Kennedy Center, and it was glorious. He played it for me, and I could see him wistfully remembering those days.
Zorba, Joseph, Phantom, Cabaret, On the Twentieth Century, Guys and Dolls, Jacques Brel--- the list goes on and on and on.
Gary was a storyteller and a raconteur, and when he retired, he started writing his own cabaret shows, and he still sounded fabulous.
I loved Gary very much. He was funny, and generous to a fault, and irascible, and loving. I was with him at the hospital last night, I couldn't enter the room because of the world we live in, but I brought him his iPad, and I told that him Shiloh was looking forward to seeing him, which made him smile. And I told him that I loved him. And I'm so glad that I did. I feel so lucky to have known him, I loved listening to his stories. I will miss him so much.

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