In memory of

Donald James (Jim) Henderson

August 7, 1940 -  May 2, 2020

Donald James ("Jim") Henderson. August 7, 1940 to May 2, 2020

Jim passed away peacefully on May 2, 2020 at the age of 79 after a long struggle with complications due to Parkinson's disease, and then COVID-19.
He is survived by his wife Karen (Santolini), his children James, Chris, and Kevin, his grand-daughter Iris, his sister Carol (Beattie), and nieces and nephews Bob Beattie, Jane King, and Ann Patton, and Bill, Sandy and Tracey Henderson.
Jim had a life-long interest in public and current affairs, and was elected as the Member of Provincial Parliament for the riding of Humber (renamed Etobicoke – Humber), for three terms, ranging from 1985 to 1995. He served as the Parliamentary Assistant to the Ministers of Community and Social Services, Colleges and Universities, and for the Provinces' Anti-Drug Strategy, and then as the Official Opposition Critic for Culture and Communications.
Both before and after his terms in politics, he was a medical doctor, in particular, a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst. He served as the Director of Psychiatry at the former Lakeshore Psychiatric Hospital, and then the Director of Psychiatric Services at the Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie. After these roles and in addition to private practice, he was an Assistant and then Associate Professor at the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Toronto, and Psychiatrist in Chief at the University of Toronto Student Health Services.
Both during and after leaving politics, Jim developed a special interest in developing countries in the Caribbean, including organizing and leading trade and medical delegations. He subsequently became fluent in Spanish, and was a guest lecturer at the University of Havana, where he assisted in the re-introduction of the study and practice of psychoanalysis in Cuba.
He was educated at the University of Toronto Schools, and the University of Western Ontario, where he became a medical doctor. He pursued post-graduate training at Johns Hopkins University, where he obtained a Master's degree in Public Health, and Diploma from the American National Board of Medical Examiners.
As a psychiatrist, his specific focuses were in parenting, children, and community care, including practicing in remote aboriginal communities, in particular, in Bella Coola (a remote community 1000 km north of Vancouver). These areas of interest were the subject of numerous addresses, media presentations, educational seminars, and more than twenty-five academic publications.
He had a love of the wilderness and outdoors, serving for several years in his teens and twenties as an out-trip canoe guide at Camp Ahmek in Algonquin Park, and then Camp Temagami in northern Ontario.
A celebration of his life will be held a later date due to physical distancing requirements imposed during the present COVID-19 state of emergency. A small ceremony will be held for immediate family. Further information and an opportunity to share condolences is available at www.etouch.ca. In lieu of flowers, donations to Parkinson Canada would be appreciated.

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Guestbook 

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Doug Ramsay (Colleague and friend)

Entered May 3, 2020 from Toronto

To Karen, James, Chris and Kevin, my sincere condolences. I hope you are all doing OK. There can certainly be a lot of sadness even when things have been difficult. Sometimes the sadness for the the loss of things that were there, and valued. And sometimes it's for the loss of things that were not there and never will be.
I hope you are able to find, even little ways, to comfort and support each other.
Take care of yourselves. Hopefully, I will see you all at the memorial service sometime down the road.
Doug Ramsay

Maureen and Paul Malloy (friend)

Entered May 3, 2020 from Etobicoke

Dear Karen, James, Chris and Kevin,

Our hearts go out to you all at this very sad time, the passing of your dear father. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May he rest in eternal peace.
Maureen and Paul Malloy

Karen Henderson (widow)

Entered May 3, 2020 from Toronto.

Jim has been suffering's with Parkinsons for 15 to 20 Years and pneumonia for at least five bouts ,finally covid took him.But I believe. his life was one of struggle,One he should have be freed from.His children were also devoted to him.James Chris and Kevin.
Isaiah 40
They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength
They'll rise up like the wings of eagles,
They shall run and not grow weary
Walk and not grow faint .
He ran the race of life nobly

Wayne & Marlyne Parker (Friend)

Entered May 3, 2020

It is sad to hear of Jim's passing. During his life he was able to give a lot of himself to others. It was sad that Parkinson's had taken over his life. I want to wish our condolences to the whole family from us as well as Raigan and Taryn. He was an outstanding member of the community.

Connie Marras (Neurologist)

Entered May 3, 2020 from Toronto, Ontario

It was a privilege to help care for Jim over many years in his difficult journey with Parkinson's disease. Over time I developed great respect for Jim's life accomplishments as I heard mostly from his family and friends about all he had done. The dedication of the family and friends that I met to promoting his well-being was striking and a testament to his impact on their lives too. I send my sincere condolences to all of you - we have lost a great contributor to our community and many other communities that Jim touched.
Connie

Life Stories 

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Ontario Association of Former Parlimentarians 

Entered July 4, 2020

In Loving Memory of
Donald James (Jim) Henderson
(August 7, 1940 - May 2, 2020)
Liberal Member of Provincial Parliament for Etobicoke-Humber
Served in the 33rd, 34th and 35th Parliaments (May 2, 1985 – June 7, 1995)

Jim Henderson was Parliamentary Assistant to the Minister of Community and Social Services, the Minister of Colleges and Universities and the Minister for Provincial Anti-Drug Strategy. He served on two Select Committees (Environment, Health) and four Standing Committees (Ombudsman, Finance and Economics, General Government, Social Development).


Biographical Snapshot

Jim Henderson was a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who served as:
Director of Psychiatry at the former Lakeshore Psychiatric Hospital (Toronto)
Director of Psychiatric Services at Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie
Associate Professor, Department of Psychiatry, University of Toronto
Psychiatrist in Chief, University of Toronto Student Health Services
Masters degree in Public Health from Johns Hopkins University
Diploma from American National Board of Medical Examiners
Guest Lecturer, University of Havana, Cuba (lecturing in Spanish) where he assisted in re-introducing the practice of psychoanalysis
Jim's specific psychiatric focus was on children, parenting, and community care.
One practice was in the remote indigenous community of Bella Coola, B.C., 1000 km. north of Vancouver

Former Parlimentarians 

Entered July 4, 2020

“I first met Dr Henderson at a meeting at the Etobicoke Civic Centre where he, as the MPP was speaking to the issues of the day and at the time there was a discussion about the role of a provincial member of parliament and their relevancy. I was so impressed with his approach for the need for autonomy of a member, respect for the member and the voice of a member. Ultimately I came to know Dr. Henderson through my involvement in politics. He was a mentor, maybe not in the way most mentors are, It was his words that I always remembered and just as important he was someone I looked up to and was inspired by his approach to government. He was approachable, a caring and wonderful person who will be missed by many. Over the years I came to know Karen, his wife and what a great lady, and like Dr. Henderson so supportive. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.” - Donna Cansfield

“My friendship with Jim began because of a debate in the House. We were on opposite sides of the issue. Jim delivered his speech with sincerity and conviction. After he sat down I sent him a note across the floor commending him on a well constructed, logical argument, although I didn't agree with his conclusion. That note was a catalyst for a friendship which has spanned more than 30 years. When I was Speaker Jim asked me to lead an all-Party delegation to Cuba, a country I had never visited. Several visits followed and with each visit I learned a bit more about the amazing work of Jim Henderson. His humanitarian feats were substantial; 100 city buses donated, $250,000 of medical supplies and much more. He organized small groups of Canadian business people to travel to Cuba to meet with the appropriate officials in order to make agreements which were good for both Cuba and Canada. There was never any monetary gain for Jim, just a desire to assist a struggling Cuban economy. His herculean efforts over the years earned him a private, two hour meeting with President Fidel Castro.
Jim and I both lost the 1995 election. In an effort to solve world problems we would meet up every once in a while at a Greek restaurant on the Danforth. Always a delightful evening, even if the problems of the world continued to exist.
Jim was modest about his talents, and his accomplishments. He possessed a brilliant mind. His observations were thoughtful and thought provoking. Jim's family was central to his being. Jim Henderson brought civility to the political arena. He was a true parliamentarian and a true friend.” - David Warner

“Although Jim came from the Liberal Party he was always very open and trustful with me. He was most supportive of my efforts to get Legislation banning smoking in the workplace and public places. While respectful of his Party he sought change that was reasonable and rational and had an independent streak in him. I had many wonderful discussions with him in the Legislature as we did our "House Duty". He was a kind, thoughtful, intelligent MPP. I always considered him a friend and cherish the times we had together.

Condolences 

Entered July 4, 2020

FRIENDS AND ASSOCIATES

Nora AND MICHAEL McAuliffe and Michael

This is a beautiful obituary. It touches all the aspects of Jim's life and honours him for all he is. I use the present tense as he will live on in the hearts of all who loved him. 

Thinking of you and the boys,
Nora and Michael Mc Auliffe friends of Jim and I and family or 40 Years a fellow OT





Monsigneur Zimmer St. Clements Markland Dr Etobicoke ON

Letter I sent to him Thursday 3 days before his passing and his reply


Karen. Your pain and the pain of your family is palpable. Unfortunately, during these days quarantine and pandemic precautions, we can't do the one thing which would help the most. We can't reach out and hug one another in a wordless gesture of support and care.

Covid-19 funerals carry great restrictions. Graveside service only with one family member present. You might prefer to cremate immediately and then offer a Mass at a later point in time. 

Praying for Jim and for all of you.



Oh Karen, Maureen. Malloy 

I am heartbroken for you and your family. This is such a terrible time in our history. May Jim’s soul rest in peace. And may you be comforted by the love and support of all your friends at The Masters.

Maureen and Paul.


On May 2, 2020, at 10:18 AM, Karen Henderson wrote:

It was passed his time, enough suffering 
obituary in the paper Chris wrote last night 
Yesterday we investigated the funeral home and cemetery 
Only 9 mourners Karen
my pleasant cemetery viewing and interment in two hour period 


Sent from my iPad


Jim and Erica Curtis 
Karen Henderson MEd ,BSc, PT
Karen: Thanks for letting us know. I agree, he has suffered more than enough. But, all the same, it is sad, and it marks the end of quite a remarkable life and person.
I have always enjoyed our discussions and his “Hendersonian” take on life’s issues. Always food for thought.
You are entering a new phase and I’m sure you are up for it. Good luck!
Jim

Barrie and University Western


Sent from my iPad
So sad , Erica 
Karen ,you have been so good to Jim, thank you! Sorry we are not with you .
A sign of the times . We. will be thinking of you as the boys.

Sent from my iPad
Our thoughts are with you.

Bob Beattie Funeral mourner and Pall Bearer 1 0f 9

Jims POA in finance
Jims nephew and my university friend both I Politcal science
Phone call of deep support and he istened patiently to the progression of his illness.



Wendy and Allan
So sad to hear. Our prayers are with you Karen❤️
Just 1 comment....would you include Chris's partner?
Love you...Wendy and allan



Monsigneur Zimmer message to HIM
Jim died Saturday   May 2 at 850 am
Please say a mass 
 I will forward funds 50.00 or whatever is required 
Liz extra fro my funds extra 75my monthly funds please 

Margaret Clarke

Offered card and masses from the Jesuits my senior irsh travelling friend and aquafit lady


Adele Martin University of Toronto Associate .whose Husband recently died of pneumonia
I have ups and downs. It’s hard. Now you are going through the same thing- grief is difficult memories are a good thing but bring sadness as well.  Jim’s obituary was very nice. I guess you will have yours boys with you at some point. 
I unfortunately was not able to be with my kids because of distance. A hard time for everyone. 
You are in my heart Karen. ❤️Adel
 am very sorry to hear that Jim passed away COVID-19. Not a way we want anyone to pass away. My thoughts are with you and your sons at this very difficult time. With love Adele university Bsc OT and PT


Dear Karen,

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Hugh and I are thinking of you and your family. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.

With our deepest sympathy,

Maureen and Hugh Willis markland

Karen.  We have just heard about Jim’s passing.  How very sad for you and your boys.  We are very sorry for your loss and hope you will have whatever it takes to  get through this difficult time. 
 
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons. 
 
Brian and Jackie Mudie Masters

Dear Karen,

We so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband.
Our condolences to you, your sons and your whole family.

Please call if I can help in any way.

Big hug,
Raquel and Fred Masters

I just heard  about Jim and want to offer my condolences….I didn’t call because I am sure you are getting a lot more than you need right now!  

It’s been a long hard journey for you and  your family….you, especially, are to be admired for all your faithfulness and caring over the years….there aren’t many  people who would have done what  you did!

If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know.

Jean E is not a morning person as you know….I’ll let her know when she wakes up…

God bless and give you strength…..Love to you Karen. _Doreen Harper masters 296

.

Karen, I’m so terribly sorry to hear of your husbands passing.  So very tragic in these trying times as well that you were not able to be by his side.  God rest his soul.

If you need anything at all please do not hesitate to reach out.

Sandy Venegas. Masters musician for my 70 th 296 
647-213-2328


Karen,
This is so very beautiful, thanks for sharing.a” you raise me up “
Betty

Anne O’Shea many supportive and funny email in covid and treats

Yvonee and Laing
Much sincere condolences the masters

Khui Chinwala occupational therapy associate 70 S
Much support community contributor in India and Canada for Seniors Masters


Messenger all the following offer sincere condolences to Karen and family
Sarah Ruddle neighbours now BC and whose mother Alice Ruddle sent condolences_ UWC
Steve and Lisa Danchak inlaws
Anne and John Leonard
Pat Witol UWC

Nancy Symons
Burke Christian friend of Chris
Gloria Rowe friends and Politics
Tom Allison “ “

Donna Cansfield who I campaigned with and Jim association
Janet Marechaux her Exec Assistant

Janice and John friends of Karen and Jim Barrie Fort mc Murray Colbourne
Debrah Skljemose Friend of Karen and jim
Jean Harden ,Barb Beamish ,Betty Briscoe
Doreen Harper, Jeannie Melling


Associates from Jim from Western University
Erica and Jim Curtis
Mike Grace
Bill and Trudy Bryans


Medical Associate and Religious
Doug Ramsay.
Monseigneur Zimmer and Letter to the family of great concern

Political Associates and other who sent condolences

David Warner and Pat Warner Karen Haslam
Donna Cansfiled Norm Sterling
Gloria Rowe
Burke Christian Ruth Grier

Jim Bradley
Peter and Rose Milzen Luc Swindon
John Porter Jim Bradley
John Porter Joe Dickson
Mike Harris former premier Linda La Bourdias


Teresa Loy MBA IG



University Womens Club (Maure Kentner and Cathy sbrolla)
Noreen Reial Maureen Willis Mary Hilborn, Eleanor Maclean,
Susan Menary, Sylvia Keyes

Gifts to Parkinson's Society 

Entered July 4, 2020

Bob Beattie
Pat Olchak
Anne Raymore and John Angevine
Maureen Willis
Janice Mc Knight
Bob Beattie
John and Betty Ruth Bond
Maureen Willis
Teresa Eccleston
Dr Douglas Ramsay
Dr Michael Grace
Noreen and Dr Uri Reial

Other Donation War Amps. Irene Haslett &
Medicins Frontieres Karen Henderson

Dr James Jim Henderson 

Entered November 18, 2020

want the three eulogies here marked EULOGIES want guestbook first as in my book receipt Eulogies

Christopher Henderson


(Abbreviated eulogy )



He spoke articulately of Jim’s contributions in public service, politics, psychiatry and his humanitarian efforts in Cuba .That he was respected by his peers and associates, that he his loved his family and children -all of whom contributed to his campaigns and reelection in 1985,87 ,90 and finally 95.
He referred to Jim being “just in the next room” that “the door was open and to call him by name. He referred to Hagar Shipley in the Stone Angels by Margaret Laurence and that he suffered with dignity.
Listed at
www.etouch.ca mounpleasantgroup.com. until November


from ALL IS WELL

Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened . Everything remains as it was. I am I, you are you, the old life we lived so fondly together, untouched unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way you always used. Put no difference in your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity, or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we always enjoyed. Play, smile, think of me .
Pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort without a ghost of a shadow upon it .Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of sight because I am out of mind? I am but waiting for you for an interval. Somewhere ever near just around the corner. All is well




Bob Beattie

These are unusual times. We must all do the best that we can in them.

I am here to represent my family, and especially my mother Carol, Jim's older sister, who feels his loss deeply.

We offer our deepest condolences to Jim's family. And to his friends and others who have been touched by his loss.

And we pay our respects to Jim, for all his accomplishments in a life that was full of them. And for all of the qualities for which he was admired and loved by so many - his intelligence, his independence of spirit, his determination.

And for a quality that I came to identify with Jim - his desire always to do the right thing. He was a man of principle, and he worked for good in the world. That was apparent in his commitment to his profession and his peers; it was apparent in his commitment to public service and the larger community; and above all it was apparent in his passionate devotion to his family.

I will close with that. To Karen, James, Chris and Kevin - we are so sorry for your loss. Know that you and Jim are in our thoughts. And to Jim - now the long struggle is over, may you rest in peace.
David warner
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Eulogy from David Warner included in Parliamentary letter


Karen Henderson. (Abbreviation )

She referred to the times she and Jim shared at Lakeshore Hospital in outpatient and community services , his Charm and intelligence and leadership with the team and how he swept her off her feet, their date at the skyline hotel which was the beginning of the romance.
We shared social academic nights with the diverse staff. In addition he added in helping my father have a good death sitting with him for months each week before our wedding.
Our family grew after 1977 till we had three fine sons. I was an instrumental part of his medical political and humanitarian life in Cuba. Saddly, his Parkinsons began to plague him in the year 2000 where she cared for him til 2010 where he went into care .

I’d also like to acknowledge Jane King a mature niece of Jims who is also representing Sandy and Tracy (Henderson). In addition , David Warner and Ena who were our heart and hands many times who took him to every medical appointment and Ena our PSW who took care of him daily for 10 in fact risking covid .
Years in cooperation with Chris as POA ,and Bob Beattie and a co POA , his boys, who showed great devotion whether with visits from Marmora and or phone calls from James and conversations and sports games on Tv from Kevin often twice a week along with some family events we held at Humber Heights including his75th birthday with his political office and recognition from Kathleen Wynn premier and Yvan Baker mpp.

And a special acknowledgment to Douglas Ramsay who cared for Jim weekly for over10 years in the form of supportive therapy coming from across town to perform that visit.

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