In memory of

余胡芝萍夫人 Diane Chi Ping Yu

May 25, 1949 -  September 3, 2019

Diane Yu sadly passed away on September 3rd, 2019. Loving wife of 44 years to Patrick Yu, mother to Derek and Brendon Yu, Paula Do and Adilia Ramos, and grandmother to Ian and Rebecca Yu. Predeceased by her brother Jack and nephew Timmy. Devoted sister to Sally, and Julie. Beloved aunt to Cheryl, Michael, and Vincent. Adored colleague, and inspiring friend to many. She was born in a remote village in China and travelled to Canada with her younger sister on her own at approximately the age of 14. She then grew up in Ottawa, Ontario before completing her education at the University of Waterloo where she met and fell in love with Patrick. She spent the remainder of her 70 years in Markham, Ontario, surrounded by family and friends. She was a lover of games, puzzles, food, laughter and - most importantly - people. She firmly believed in the good of all and spent her life devoted to others. She was taken too soon and will be terribly, sorely missed.

This website is dedicated to the celebration of the life of Diane Yu. Please feel free to contribute stories, videos and photos. It goes without saying that you should be respectful and mindful of what you contribute. Be sure to sign the guestbook however you see fit - your name will suffice, but if you want to say more, say more. She is listening and so are we. You can write to her or write to us, it's up to you. Thanks in advance.

If you would like to attend the service, there is no formal RSVP process - all are welcome to come and celebrate Diane's life, share laughs, and support each other in this difficult time. As per her wishes, Diane will be presented in a beautiful urn. I will attempt to speak and say goodbye, but there will be an opportunity for everyone to get on the mic and share if you wish to do so. There will be no ceremony, rituals, litanies, or anything of the sort. Come and go as you please. There will be cards available for you to sign and write well-wishes or letters to mom that we will compile into a guestbook as well. At the end of the service, there will be a private ceremony for only the family at the mausoleum.

For those wishing to send flowers and/or arrangements, please instead consider making your way to the Donations tab and select a charity to support in her name. Space will be limited and your support and love would better be suited helping others like her who are in need. Thank you.

NOTE: This site is being maintained by Brendon Yu. If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please reach out to me directly or at dianeservice@outlook.com Do not reach out to Patrick or Derek regarding content or structure of this website. It is a difficult time for the family and we each have our own roles to play. A gentle reminder that this website and upcoming service is not about you, it's about the wonderful woman that left us behind. The email account above will be sporadically monitored. If you have any information you'd like to share like a biography or information that you feel would be a good fit, please send it that way and I will try to make room somewhere for it. There's only so much I could put together in a couple of hours, forgive me.

Guestbook 

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Brendon Yu (Son)

Entered September 5, 2019

Mom... I didn't think I would have to write something like this so soon. You had a knack for already knowing the things I'd left unsaid, way before I discovered that I had to say them.
So in that, I know that I don't need to regret. You knew my heart best. You are my superhero, the brightest star in darkest night, and the example by which I strive to follow every day. You were always a clown and an entertainer and your laughter will be what I carry closest to my heart. I will miss you forever. I will love you forever. You fought the hardest fight and by all counts, you should have won. Maybe you did, and we're just all the ones who lost. I hope you are at peace now and I promise we will see each other again. RIP mom. I love you, love you, love you!

David Leung (Good friend to Diane and Patrick)

Entered September 5, 2019 from Toronto

We first met Diane and Patrick at Montreal in the late 70’s. We were introduced by Cheng Man and Lucy. We even witnessed the birth of Brendon. The group folks were very happy together playing “majiang “; picnicking with the kids etc etc.
All these years, Diane had showed us her good, friendly, helpful and many joyful behaviors. Patsy and I were deeply sad to know the passed away news. We miss her very much and wishing Diane be in another peaceful world ...... and be happy ever. God bless.

Ann Andrews (Previous Co-worker)

Entered September 5, 2019 from Barrie/ WCC & SCC

Diane & I worked together for many many years at BMO.... She was the kindest person, filled with compassion. Her spirit was so infectious. She brought joy to everybody in her path. She has given so much peace, joy and fulfillment to all that had the privilege of knowing her.... God has a very special angel now.

Mel Louie-Byne (Friend of Patrick & Dianne)

Entered September 5, 2019

will miss seeing her and talking to her on occasion when we were at the same place!!!

Gregory & Pauline Lo (Classmate to Patrick Yu)

Entered September 5, 2019 from Richmond Hill

Until grief recedes and peace sustains, and loving memory remains...Warm thoughts will be with dear Patrick and families.

Life Stories 

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Brendon Yu (Son)

Entered September 5, 2019

Adilia and I met through board games and through that, we brought board games to mom and dad. They loved having us over to play whatever we put in front of them and mom tended to win most of the time, but maybe that's because the three of us would often work out her turns for her haha What I loved most about mom was that if she loved something, she had to share it, and so they invited Don and Gerry to come play games with us as well.

The game we chose to bring on one night was Telestrations, a game like "broken telephone" only it's done by passing along drawings around a table. The game involves drawing a picture based on a word or a phrase, then the next player has to guess, then the next player draws that guess, and so on. At the end of the game, everyone reviews their booklet once it's passed through everyone else's hands.

The game really shines when people can't draw to save their lives and it just so happened that we discovered that, well, nobody could draw to save their lives. Most of the books got so far off their original phrases with highly-questionable "art", and we especially loved my dad's doodles. Suffice to say that each review would result in terrible fits of laughter to the point where mom was in tears, leaning back on dad with her legs up in the air. I had never seen her laugh so hard and it is one of my fondest memories. I will always cherish that night.

Photos 

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