You lived with your sister and me for the last 3 years. I always liked to tease you about how Stallone can't act, how the Jay's can't play baseball, how your 80's music sucked. It was all in fun. How you told us you're going to your lawyer after the chickens attacked you, how you would be outside barbecuing and call us up at Cookstown Chicks, and said you wanted to order an Asian chick. We would play along and tell you we have chickens, not girls. You thought it was hilarious.
We worried about you and your long hours.
I will miss you buddy.
I will never have the proper words to ever say goodbye to you, it's something I never ever thought I'd have to do. Naively enough I was convinced you were Superman. I will always treasure some of the last memories I have with you; slow dancing together, driving home from the family wedding back in August, you and I were the only ones who managed to stay awake on the drive back home we we're listening to music on my phone, And you were so happy that we had the same taste in music. I will never forget you saying "That's my daughter!" With a huge smile on your face. I carry you in my heart and I always will. I promise to make every Halloween kick ass for you! I promise I will. You've blessed me with you Swift witty comebacks, your incredible work ethic, your corky humor and most importantly your over all strength, physical, mental and emotional. I love you so much and I am so proud to have called you my father, Until we see each other again, Rest in Paradise Pops.
Derek gave me four beautiful children it has been the best gift I could ever receive.
I'm going to miss u so much Derek. It's not going to b the same without u. Love u ❤. Dana I'm always here for u for anything love u. ❤
Derek, I first met you through your mom Dianne when we were about 18 and Dianne and I worked together at the Merle Norman packaging plant.
I think our introduction was Dianne and I coming into the house while you were napping on the couch and Dianne calling out your name and asking if you were making a tent. I loved your mom not just for her humour but for everything she stood for.
When I saw you last at Dianne's celebration and reconnected with both yourself and Dana on social media, it became clear to me that you also embodied the same values and loving heart and thats why just like Dianne, you were so loved by those who knew you.
Anybody who spent more than 10 minutes talking to you knew how deeply you loved your children and my heart breaks for them and for Dana as well.
There is much sadness and disbelief that you are gone, but our energy never dies, it just changes form, and I'm sure if we pay close enough attention, we will still catch glimpses of your presence.
💜