In memory of

Derek Leifsen Hofsten

December 22, 1966 -  September 30, 2018

We say goodbye to Derek, who passed away in the early hours on Sunday, September 30, 2018 at Sunnybrook Hospital in Toronto. He passed away due to complications as a result of a car crash early in the morning of September 16 on his way to work. He loved to work, he always said "I work two jobs and I will always work two jobs, that's what I do." The only love he had more than work was for his 4 children. He always spoke of his love for Courtney, Colt, Dallas, and Brooke. His Facebook tagline was "My kids are my life. Pure and simple"
He leaves behind not only his children, but his older sister Dana, who always had his back, as he always had hers. They would do anything for each other. He also leaves his half-siblings, Neil, Kerri, and Tara. He is pre-deceased by his mother Dianne Cooke who left us in December of 2015.

Derek loved sports, especially baseball and hockey, spending most of his down time coaching the Blue Jays from the living room sofa. He always told us he's going to have to drive to Toronto get in the game and take over the coaching.
His passion for baseball spilled over to him playing in the Brampton baseball league for over 20 years.

He loved his sports memorabilia, and his collectibles and action figures. He had a story for almost every item, and each one had a special meaning to him.

Derek loved his movies and sitcoms, mostly from the 80's and 90's. He seemed to know anyone who ever starred in any movie and always could tell you some trivia. His favourites were Big Bang Theory, the Rocky series of movies, Jaws, and anything to do with Halloween. Halloween was just as exciting as Christmas to Derek - living out in the country the last 3 years he still carved and displayed pumpkins for his special day, even though no one ever came trick or treating.

Next to his his family, Derek absolutely loved life, something that was sadly cut short at 51 years of age.
We will always remember him, and always miss him.

Guestbook 

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Tim Pacan (brother-in-law)

Entered October 10, 2018 from Cookstown

You lived with your sister and me for the last 3 years. I always liked to tease you about how Stallone can't act, how the Jay's can't play baseball, how your 80's music sucked. It was all in fun. How you told us you're going to your lawyer after the chickens attacked you, how you would be outside barbecuing and call us up at Cookstown Chicks, and said you wanted to order an Asian chick. We would play along and tell you we have chickens, not girls. You thought it was hilarious.
We worried about you and your long hours.

I will miss you buddy.

Courtney (Daughter)

Entered October 10, 2018 from Hamilton

I will never have the proper words to ever say goodbye to you, it's something I never ever thought I'd have to do. Naively enough I was convinced you were Superman. I will always treasure some of the last memories I have with you; slow dancing together, driving home from the family wedding back in August, you and I were the only ones who managed to stay awake on the drive back home we we're listening to music on my phone, And you were so happy that we had the same taste in music. I will never forget you saying "That's my daughter!" With a huge smile on your face. I carry you in my heart and I always will. I promise to make every Halloween kick ass for you! I promise I will. You've blessed me with you Swift witty comebacks, your incredible work ethic, your corky humor and most importantly your over all strength, physical, mental and emotional. I love you so much and I am so proud to have called you my father, Until we see each other again, Rest in Paradise Pops.

Linda Hofsten (Spouse)

Entered October 10, 2018 from Hamilton

Derek gave me four beautiful children it has been the best gift I could ever receive.

Cindy Sowden (Cousin)

Entered October 11, 2018 from Cobourg

I'm going to miss u so much Derek. It's not going to b the same without u. Love u ❤. Dana I'm always here for u for anything love u. ❤

Monica Lotz (Friend)

Entered October 11, 2018 from Caledon East

Derek, I first met you through your mom Dianne when we were about 18 and Dianne and I worked together at the Merle Norman packaging plant.
I think our introduction was Dianne and I coming into the house while you were napping on the couch and Dianne calling out your name and asking if you were making a tent. I loved your mom not just for her humour but for everything she stood for.
When I saw you last at Dianne's celebration and reconnected with both yourself and Dana on social media, it became clear to me that you also embodied the same values and loving heart and thats why just like Dianne, you were so loved by those who knew you.
Anybody who spent more than 10 minutes talking to you knew how deeply you loved your children and my heart breaks for them and for Dana as well.
There is much sadness and disbelief that you are gone, but our energy never dies, it just changes form, and I'm sure if we pay close enough attention, we will still catch glimpses of your presence.
💜

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