My parents were friends with Barry (and still Carol). I’ve known them almost my whole life. He always made me feel seen and loved at family get togethers. Fire some reason, two stories stand out: Firstly, hearing him say “are you using your pants as a napkin again” to one of his children. I marveled at how he could joyously correct a child without making them feel bad. (I’ve since used the obtuse on my own kids). Secondly; as a young lady I had a disagreement with a boyfriend about the proper state of the toilet seat in houses - up or down. Who should need to adjust for usage. He brilliantly piped it with the sage advice that the lid should always be left down. Of course!! Just small examples of how well he dealt with people. He was a man of integrity and of course I loved his playful humor.
My condolences to the Willis family. Love Sheila (nee Thurlow).
Carole, I will never forget how you and Barry have loved on me, then my husband and later on my children. I love you and I’m sending you huge hugs. I have so, so many amazing memories. I was honoured that Barry spoke at my wedding, helped me over bumps in my journey called life and cared so much about me. 💕I will always remember how we were welcome in your home any day for as long as we needed. I will miss Barry’s humour, laughter and hugs but especially his friendship. May he rest in love.
Katie, Peter and Chris - I love you all and I am so sorry.