In memory of

Charles Barry Willis

January 12, 1934 -  July 22, 2022

BARRY WILLIS January 12, 1934 - July 22, 2022 Barry Willis, 88, of Toronto, Canada, passed away on July 22, 2022 after a battle with dementia and coronary disease. Survived by his wife, Carole; children, Katie (Justin), Peter (Lisa), Chris, Tricia, John (Amanda), and David. Proud grandparent of Emma and Sarah Medved, Finn and Sadie Willis, and Jacob and Anna Pickup. Brother-in-law to Jill, Rosemary (John), and Elizabeth. Born in Peterborough, Ontario to Jack and Helen Willis, the family, including his younger sister Linda, moved to Toronto in the 1940s. Barry attended Leaside High School, followed by the University of Toronto, where he graduated from Victoria College. Barry had a curious and agile mind which was evident in his professional life. He enjoyed a long career spanning several decades and industries with the common thread being his gift with people and his enjoyment of solving problems. He thrived when connecting with others and had the unique ability to make everyone he met feel welcome. Religion and faith played a large role in his life. He was a member of St. Leonard's Anglican Church for many years, where he served as Warden and took great pleasure in singing the bass part during hymns to make his children laugh. Barry spent many summers up north; beginning with summer camp and later at cottages and boating. He enjoyed all the landscapes of Ontario and was happiest when paddling on a lake. He also loved winter activities, particularly skiing. The family would like to thank the caregivers and nurses at Meighen Manor for the excellent care given to Barry and for providing comfort and support, particularly during the height of COVID when no visitors were allowed. A private Celebration of Life will be held for family members.

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Sheila Veenstra (Family friend)

Entered October 20, 2022 from Pennsylvania

My parents were friends with Barry (and still Carol). I’ve known them almost my whole life. He always made me feel seen and loved at family get togethers. Fire some reason, two stories stand out: Firstly, hearing him say “are you using your pants as a napkin again” to one of his children. I marveled at how he could joyously correct a child without making them feel bad. (I’ve since used the obtuse on my own kids). Secondly; as a young lady I had a disagreement with a boyfriend about the proper state of the toilet seat in houses - up or down. Who should need to adjust for usage. He brilliantly piped it with the sage advice that the lid should always be left down. Of course!! Just small examples of how well he dealt with people. He was a man of integrity and of course I loved his playful humor.
My condolences to the Willis family. Love Sheila (nee Thurlow).

Janet Hill (Family friend)

Entered October 21, 2022 from Ottawa

Carole, I will never forget how you and Barry have loved on me, then my husband and later on my children. I love you and I’m sending you huge hugs. I have so, so many amazing memories. I was honoured that Barry spoke at my wedding, helped me over bumps in my journey called life and cared so much about me. 💕I will always remember how we were welcome in your home any day for as long as we needed. I will miss Barry’s humour, laughter and hugs but especially his friendship. May he rest in love.

Katie, Peter and Chris - I love you all and I am so sorry.



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