In memory of

Alice Li Ying Pau

January 3, 1953 -  January 19, 2021

It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Alice Pau on January 19, 2021.

Alice was born January 3rd, 1953 in Makassar, Indonesia to Lim Ai Hua and Lie Eng Hoat. From an early age, she proved to be a strong, nurturing, thoughtful and reliable daughter and sister. As the second eldest in a family of ten siblings, she helped her parents look after all her younger brothers and sisters. One of her fondest memories was helping them with their homework, a story she loved to retell well into adulthood.

She immigrated to Canada to broaden her life view and pursue higher education. At York University, she met the love of her life, Kenneth Pau. On June 15, 1984 they got married in a quaint civil ceremony surrounded by their closest family and friends. Together they built a wonderful life and family centered on their children, Felix and Jennifer. She loved and protected her family fiercely but also encouraged her children to make their own path.

Alice dedicated her career to the publishing industry and frequently brought books home for her children. She inspired her daughter's love of reading. She also loved reading and watching the news, and often times updated the family on global affairs. She was numbers and tech savvy, and was never intimidated by new apps or social media.

Despite being diagnosed with ALS in 2009, she remained a vibrant spirit and ever resilient force. Her personable nature and charming character made her a favorite amongst so many care givers, nurses, doctors, social workers, speech pathologists and respiratory therapists. She was always thankful for everyone's help and fought so courageously over the past 11 years. Even with mounting health challenges, she continued to put her family first. For that, they are forever grateful.

She is survived by her husband, Kenneth, of 37 years; son, Felix; daughter, Jennifer; and two cherished grandsons, Lucas and Jacob. She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by her family and friends.


In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that you donate to Alice's ALS Memorial fund (http://support.alsevents.ca/alicepau).


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Connie (Family friend)

Entered January 22, 2021 from Toronto

My deepest condolences.
Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.

Patrick Kaan (Cousin)

Entered January 22, 2021 from Vaughan

Wish we could be there with you.
Take care of yourselves

ANNA WONG & VITUS AU (Friend)

Entered January 22, 2021

We miss you Alice. We will not forget your cheerful smile, your optimistic character. RIP 🙏

Melanie Kaan (Cousin)

Entered January 22, 2021 from Vaughan

I deeply admired Alice’s character and heart, and I’ll always remember her with love.

Nadia (Niece)

Entered January 22, 2021 from Markham

Dear Auntie Alice,

I hope you’re doing well, somewhere far, far away.

Thank you for taking care of me throughout the past 20 years of my life, but especially when I came to Canada to begin university. Thank you for checking in on me regularly to make sure that I was okay, helping me settle into my new life here, having so much faith in me, and always welcoming me into your home with open arms and a big smile. You have always been, and will always be an inspiration to me, teaching me to always choose kindness. Your resilience through challenges has always been admirable to me.

大龍龍,您曾經告訴我,您很放心我。我答應您,在往後的日子中,我無論在工作,學業,生活上各方面都會繼續不讓您操心。希望您能夠安息,脫離一切病痛。期待有一天,可以在天堂中與您相聚。

I love you so much and will always miss you!

小龍龍Nadia

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