In memory of

Valerie McArthur

September 2, 1943 -  January 13, 2019

MacArthur, ( nee White) Valerie left us on January 13, 2019. A beloved mother, wife, and grandmother, Valerie was born in Edinburgh, Scotland, on September 2, 1943, and came to Canada in 1949 with her family. Her older sister Gloria being especially close and probably the one constant in her life. Valerie spent her early years in various Durham Region homes. She would eventually graduate top of her class as a Nursing Assistant, and went on to work at Whitby Psychiatric Hospital. At that time she met her first husband John Teravainen, with whom she had two sons Jeff and James Teravainen. After being a stay-at-home, Valerie eventually returned to work, and was employed with Dr. Weir at the Oshawa Clinic until her retirement.
In the early 1990's, she met and married Ed Moore. They lived happily in Oshawa and eventually in Whitby. Wherever they went, Valerie brought an artistry to their homes’ gardens, something she was known for and celebrated among her friends and neighbours. It was her gardens that brought Valerie great enjoyment and pride. She was a talented artist. Valerie was a wonderful and witty poet who was often asked to write for special occasions. She loved to read and enjoyed movies and shows.
She was incredibly proud and supportive of her children. And she carried those traits to Ed. Starting over in his life, she was there in the background supporting his accession in his great career. She was truly giving, generous and loving. No one in her life ever had to wonder if they were loved or valued.
Valerie is survived by Ed, her two sons, two stepsons, stepdaughter, Brother Allan and Ian and their families, including her 5 grandchildren. We will miss her love, care, warmth and generosity. She will be loved and remembered always.

Valerie noster suffert caritas

Guestbook 

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Byron Gilchrist and Family (Family Friend)

Entered January 18, 2019 from Whitby

James and Jeff - so sorry for your loss. I remember your Mom from back in the early days, she was an amazing lady. Our prays and thoughts go to you and your family. Byron

ADAM JOE REID (OLD FRIEND)

Entered January 18, 2019 from OSHAWA

ALWAYS A LADY R.I P. VALERIE

diana galsworthy (Cousin)

Entered January 19, 2019 from Scotland

All of the family in Scotland have wonderful memories of Valerie, she was so funny, enjoyed seeing our family at a special celebration, my years with Valerie spanned many decades from being "pen pals" in our youth to the constant e-mails between us, we were more like sisters, always had the same views on most everything. We shared a great love of gardening and cooking,

She will be sorely missed by all of us here, Our love and deepest sympathies to all of the family. Love Diana xx

Antony von Palleske and family (Friend of Jeffs)

Entered January 19, 2019 from Oshawa

Jeff and Jamie . Losing the person that brought you into this world is the toughest thing you will ever face. Remember the love and laughter and the pain that is choking your hearts will ease with time .
Try and find some peace in your faith , whatever that may be .
With deepest sympathy.
Antony and Family

Susie Dodds 

Entered January 19, 2019 from Ottawa

Valerie’s garden’s were as beautiful as she was. I loved her and will miss her. I am so sorry. Cherish all the memories. Love and hugs.

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Liz Moore (Step daughter-in-law)

Entered January 19, 2019 from PEI

Val came into my life in 2007 when I arrived in Canada to live with Sean ( my husband to be ), little did I know what a big impact she would make on my life. She took me under her wing & guided me into Canadian ways, some of them interesting but never ever dull. We shopped & shopped, garden centers were our priority, her love of flowers was exceptional, creating beauty with her green fingers. Val was always the lady but oh so funny, just loved her wit & sense of humour. I quickly learnt what a caring home loving person she was, she lived for her Ed & her family, always there to listen & never judge. I don’t think she realized what qualities she had, you had to admire the way she brought the best out in people, never questioning, always encouraging, qualities so rare. I admired her tirelesys energy, nothing ever seemed to slow her down from her immaculate house to her beautiful garden, she always made you feel so welcome. I loved her honesty but never offending, encouraging & helping whenever you needed her, always quick to start a conversation, telling many interesting stories in her life. I really will miss her wisdom, strength, companionship & laughter, she was such a special person to so many people I’m so lucky & privileged to say I was part of her life. I’m sure she made an impression on many lives & for that we should be thankful, thankful to say yes I knew & loved Val too. To see her smile when she talked on the phone or mentioning her grandchildren, absolutely priceless, we were the lucky ones. In the months following her diagnosis, she showed such dignity even though in terrible pain, never complaining, so brave, excepting what lay ahead of her with courage. I’m so blessed to have known & loved this beautiful lady, proud to say she was more than a friend, she is certainly going to be missed by so many but we should be grateful we could call her ours.

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