In memory of

Roque Alex Martin Fernandes

March 23, 1931 -  September 3, 2023


On September 3rd, we lost Roque, our beloved husband, father/father-in-law and grandfather. He lived a remarkable 92 years with kindness and humility. He was a true example of a 'life well lived', devoted to his family. Roque is survived by his wife Helen (nee Nunes), his children Christina (Andrew), Caroline and Christopher (Anne), and his grandchildren Priyasha, Benjamin and Henry.

Born in Mumbai, India, Roque grew up the second-youngest of four siblings. As a young man, he began his career in banking. He met the love of his life, Helen and they were married in 1956. They enjoyed a 67-year love story. In those early days, they lived in Goa, India, Mombasa, Kenya and Dar Es Salaam, Tanganyika (Tanzania).

Roque wanted to have the best opportunities for his family and made the courageous decision to emigrate to Canada in 1967. They soon settled in Guildwood Village in Scarborough and Roque started working at the Bank of Nova Scotia in downtown Toronto. He had a successful banking career there until his retirement in 1996.

Roque was an avid gardener, proud of his flowers, grape vines and vegetables. He also enjoyed travelling, photography, ballroom dancing and fishing. He was a warm and generous person who loved spending time with family and friends. He was an easy-going peacekeeper; always making people smile with his sense of humour that will not soon be forgotten.

Roque and Helen moved to Mississauga in 2007. The family is deeply grateful to the personal support caregivers for helping Roque to stay at home as long as possible.

β€œIt broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you the day God called you home."

Roque, Dad, Grandpa, we will miss you dearly but you are resting in eternal peace. You will always and forever be in our hearts.

Guestbook 

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Jenny Carson (Family Friend)

Entered September 12, 2023 from Toronto

Dear Anne and Chris and Benjamin and Henry,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Chris your Dad sounds like he was a wonderful man. He certainly raised a kind and generous and brilliant son. May his memory be a blessing.
Our thoughts are with you all
Jenny and Hugo and Teo and Matias and Nico

Sara Kribs (Family Piano Teacher)

Entered September 13, 2023 from Toronto/Michigan

Dear Chris, Anne, Benjamin, and Henry,

I am SO sorry for the loss of your father and grandfather. What an incredible legacy of love he has clearly left for his family, children and grandchildren, and for generations to come. My heart is with you all as you grieve. Thank you for allowing me to be a musical part of your family for all these years; I cherish the time spent. Blessings, Sara

mario and maria da cunha (Nephew and Cousin)

Entered September 13, 2023 from N.Tonanwanda, upstate New York

Dearest Fernandes Family,

Thank you for the funeral information and what a touching and most beautiful tribute
to Uncle Rocque. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this dad tim. Love, Mario and Maria

Tashi gurung (Caregiver)

Entered September 13, 2023 from mississauga

thanks for ncluding me in this guest list.

Marilou Brillantes (Private caregiver/friend)

Entered September 13, 2023 from Vietnam

Roque, you will always be forever in my heart. Your contagious smile, witty jokes & warm greetings will be missed.
Rest in the arms of our Lord. πŸ™ Till we meet again. I love you πŸ’–

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