In memory of

Mark Alexander Ronald Coltof

October 8, 1985 -  January 31, 2026

Mark Alexander Ronald Coltof of Oshawa, Ontario, passed away unexpectedly at home in the early morning hours of January 31, 2026, at the age of 40.

Mark lived with epilepsy throughout his life, facing its many challenges with quiet strength and perseverance. Although the condition often made daily life difficult, he met those obstacles with determination and courage. With the unwavering love and support of his parents, brother and extended family, Mark worked hard to build on his strengths and live life with dignity and purpose.

For the past two years, Mark was a valued member of the Kitchen Services team at Parkland Retirement Home in Ajax. He took pride in his work and formed meaningful connections with his coworkers, staff, and the residents he served. His kindness, gentle nature, and warm presence touched many lives.

Mark will be deeply missed by his loving parents, Ron and Kathy; his brother, Edward; his uncle and aunt, Paul and Debra Komaromi; his cousins Darryl; Jason and his wife Melina and their children, Liam and Ethan; and Dave and Monique and their son, Sean. He will also be remembered fondly by extended family in Holland, Hungary and Ireland, his many friends, and all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

Mark’s bright spirit, kind heart, and infectious smile will remain with us always.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to the Epilepsy Durham in Mark’s memory. https://epilepsydurham.com/
***When making your donation, please check off where it says "I would like to dedicate this gift" and note Mark's name in the Dedication Name field.***

Guestbook 

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Marco (Deer creek kitchen friends)

Entered February 6, 2026 from Ajax

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Dave Monique & Sean (Cousin)

Entered February 6, 2026 from Scarborough

Deepest sympathies, to Aunt Cathy and Uncle ron, and cousin Edward. We will always remember the backyard barbecues and Xmas holiday gatherings with family with lasting fun memories. Marks resilience while living with eplilepsy took great strength, he will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all.

Erin 

Entered February 6, 2026 from Brooklin, Ontario

Rest in peace, Mark. My thoughts are with your family.

Ilse and Ken Lim (Friends)

Entered February 6, 2026 from Whitby Ontario

My condolences to Kathy, Ron and Edward. Our hearts ache for you. We loved Mark like a son and we will miss him. We will never forget your kindness to Oma. Stay strong and take pride and comfort in the fact that he was a beautiful human being.

Paul & Debra Komaromi (Uncle & Aunt)

Entered February 7, 2026 from Oshawa

Memorable family get-togethers and the many smiles you shared with us are moments we will always cherish. We watched you face your personal health struggles with quiet strength, surrounded by the love and support of your family. Sadly, my nephew, your time with us was cut far too short… but the memories we hold of you will last forever.

Uncle Paul & Aunt Debbie Komaromi

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Edward Coltof (brother)

Entered February 12, 2026

Hello, my Dear Brother Mark

Words cannot describe how I feel right now but I am very shocked and deeply saddened by your loss because you passed away so suddenly and much too soon. I am very proud and grateful to have spent the last 40 years with you, and you were the best brother anybody could have hoped for during this time. We also lived life to the fullest because we had a wonderful childhood experience which most people don’t get the chance to experience in that we lived overseas in Germany for five years and attended the Frankfurt International School during this time. This exposed us to all the world’s cultures and taught us to be appreciative of people from different cultural, ethnic and religious backgrounds and to fight against racism and prejudice. We also travelled extensively to many European countries and saw many amazing sites which many people could only dream of such as the amazing Amalfi Coast, Rome, the Rhine Valley, the mighty Alps, the Norwegian Fjords, Prague, Budapest and more. I know that you always wanted to visit Egypt because both of us studied the Ancient Egyptian Civilization in school and I regret deeply that you never got to go there but I will try to get there someday on your behalf.

We also fulfilled life be being members of various choirs and orchestras over the years and had some excellent times performing in them by singing and playing musical instruments and making lasting friendships.

Although you struggled more with your epilepsy in your final years, I am very proud of you for overcoming these hardships by finding steady full-time work with benefits because jobs like that are becoming increasingly difficult to find, so congratulations to you for keeping that job for as long as you did.

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