In memory of

Major Ray Nelson

July 21, 1933 -  August 2, 2024

Ray Nelson was a loving and caring husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. He left this earth to be with his Heavenly Father on Friday August 2, 2024, at the age of 91 years. Ray was born to Laura and Granville Nelson on July 21, 1933, in Campbellton, New Brunswick. He was the 5th born in a family that eventually had seven children. Ray’s family moved to Oshawa, Ontario in 1949. He was a member of the Oshawa Temple Salvation Army in those days & entered the College for Officer Training in 1954. He met his future wife Betty in Toronto at the College for Officers Training. He completed his training in 1955 as part of the Soul Winners session. Soon after completing college, he was engaged to Betty Lou Bissell from Sarnia, Ontario. They were married on July 6, 1957 & started their careers at the small corps (church) of Byersville, in Peterborough, Ontario. At the time of their retirement in 1998 they had been in 18 different appointments together & 13 different cities, including 2 years in Los Angeles, California & 2 years in Seattle, Washington. Plus 2 appointments as single officers (pastors).
Ray loved sports, especially hockey & baseball & participated in each. He also enjoyed completing odd jobs around the house and his “handiwork” is on display throughout our home. He will be remembered for his quick wit and sense of humour. On July 6 of this year Ray & Betty celebrated their 67th wedding anniversary. Ray & Betty have two children, Steve and Susan. Ray will be remembered and missed by his sister Norma, his grandsons Adam (Erin) & Grady (Caitlin) and his granddaughter Robin (Anders). His great grandchildren Riya, Lincoln, Theo, Evelyn, Henry, Elese & Remy. Rays greatest joy was his grandchildren and spending times with them when his health allowed. We are confident this was also true for his great grandchildren, although his health wouldn’t allow him to fully engage with them. His love for God, his wife Betty & his family was undeniable. He will be greatly missed, but we are confident that he is now with his Heavenly Father whom he served faithfully all his life.

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Lloyd Evans 

Entered August 5, 2024 from Mount Herbert

Sending my sincerest condolences.

Grady Marshall and family (Grandson)

Entered August 5, 2024 from Cochrane, Alberta

You were a kind, loving and gentle man. You were always willing to help others before yourself. I will always remember you and how you made us laugh, even if it was at your own expense! You lit up the room when you were in it.

Now you are healed from your illness, you can see clearly again, and remember all the family and friends who love you and the fun times we've shared.

Just remember when you are golfing with our Lord and Saviour, not to claim you got too many hole in ones.

You will always be loved and missed.

Janey Kennedy (Cousin)

Entered August 6, 2024 from Peterborough

Our cousin, Ruth, shared Ray's passing on to me. This is a sad time. My condolances to all.

Heather Smith (Friend)

Entered August 6, 2024 from Oshawa

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know you will miss him but are also rejoicing in him being with his Lord and Saviour. He was always looking out for others and a kind smile and handshake to everyone he met. He was a wonderful friend to my parents(in-laws). His humour - oh boy! Usually a groan more than a laugh - or both lol.
May God bless you with many wonderful memories and shared stories at this time of grief and loss.

Kim McLinton (Niece’s and Nephew’s Kim Lori,Jim,Al.)

Entered August 6, 2024 from Whitby

We will all miss our uncle Ray wonderful sense of humour, his amazing smile and his kindness may he rest in peace.

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