In memory of

Lai Har Lam - 林麗霞

December 23, 1927 -  October 29, 2025

In her 98th year, 林麗霞 / Lai Har Lam (nee Pong / 彭) passed away peacefully during the night, joining her late husband Yip Wah/葉華 and sons Eddie and Ron as well as siblings Ching Ha, Gene Coon, Mary and Tom; and, parents Jack and Chung Oy. She will be missed dearly by her daughters Judy (Tony), Rosa (Sam), Betty (Cheuk) and Helen (Onorio); daughter-in-law Renee; siblings May Har (Shau Ning), Jack (Roslyn), Betty and Bill (Carrie); sister-in-law Jane; and her many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

Lai Har enjoyed traveling and was open to new experiences. She loved family gatherings, often sharing stories and imparting wisdom. Pastimes included swimming, playing mahjong and trips to the casino.

Please join family and friends in sharing fond memories of Lai Har on November 7th. 永遠懷念

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Lily & Stuart , Kurt and Jade Hilton (Relative)

Entered November 3, 2025 from Mississauga

Please accept our condolences on the loss of your loving sister. She was blessed to live such a long and wonderful life and to be surrounded by so many family members. Aunt Lai Har was always very pleasant and shared so many funny stories of my father and herself when they were children. RIP, Aunt Lai Har !

Laurie & Pavel Nikolov (Friend)

Entered November 6, 2025

Dear Utina, Helen, Onorio & family - our deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved grandma and mother. We know that Lai Har will always live on through the wonderful memories you have of her. Sending you much love and hugs during this very difficult time.
Laurie & Pavel Nikolov, Kristen Wadowski & family xoxo

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