In memory of

Kim Visser

January 15, 1961 -  May 2, 2024

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the death of Kim Mary Elizabeth Visser (nee Memery), a beloved wife, Mom, sister, daughter, cousin, friend, secretary, and defender of the underdog. Kim died peacefully surrounded by her loving family on May 2nd, 2024, at Lakeridge Hospital in Oshawa, ON.
Many people know her as Mrs. Visser, the heart and soul of Denis O’Connor Catholic High School. For over twenty years she helped staff and students navigate the highs and lows of high school, providing counsel, comfort, and a safe place for many. The outpouring of support from the DO’C community has been remarkable. As visitor after visitor poured into her hospital room to say goodbye, it became undoubtedly clear that Kim’s love, laughter, and kind soul had a profound effect on every person who walked through DO’C’s hallways.
Others will remember her as Kim Memery, or perhaps “Kimmie”: the darling of the Terrace Roller Rink in Toronto, driving around the neighbourhood in her iconic green Camaro. Throughout her life, she lit up every room she walked into, and had a true gift for making people feel seen. Kim will be remembered as the most attentive, caring, compassionate, and selfless person we have ever had the privilege of knowing.
Kim is survived by her husband, Edward Visser, their two daughters, Carlie and Erin Visser, her mother, Doreen Memery, and her dear Auntie Eileen. She was predeceased by her brother, Don, and dad, John “Jack” Memery. We will miss her every day. Her laugh, her hugs, and her special way of finding humour in even the most stressful of situations.
Words are not enough to express just how much Kim meant to so many people. We love you Mrs. Visser… Kim… Kimmie… Mom…M.O.T.H…Y.O.T.H.

For Donations, A trust fund will be established, check back in a few days.

Folks visiting in person, can write a cheque payable to Carlie Visser.

Guestbook 

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Arline and Rob Dickinson (DOC employees)

Entered May 7, 2024 from Oshawa

We are just shocked and so sad about the loss of Kim. She was DOC!!! Thoughts and prayers for the family.

Cindy Persico (friend)

Entered May 7, 2024 from Whitby

We were so saddened to hear of Kim's passing and battle with cancer, Kim was such a beautiful, strong, respected and funny woman who will be missed by many. We met Kim in 2005 through our daughters, Jessica and Erin, who played soccer together for a couple years in rep but we always saw and spoke Ed, Kim and Erin at soccer games when they played opposite sides throughout their teens. Jessica is now a teacher and saw Kim a couple of times when she filled in at Doc. Sending our deepest condolences to Ed, Erin, Carlie, family and friends, may Kim's memories remain forever in your hearts. Love Joe, Cindy & Jessica Persico <3

Patti Darlington (Friend/colleague)

Entered May 7, 2024 from Oshawa

Kim was an amazing person and a wonderful colleague. I was always in awe of how Kim could drop everything to help others when she was working, and she did it with a smile on her face. She will leave a huge hole in the DO’C community. Deepest condolences to her family.

Lisa Mione (co worker)

Entered May 7, 2024 from Markham

I had the opportunity to work with Kim at DOC for a few months and absolutely loved her energy and compassion. I know she was loved by many and she will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace Kim. My heartfelt condolences to the Visser Family.

The Lam’s (DOC)

Entered May 7, 2024 from Oshawa

Words can not express the sadness when we heard about Kim’s (Mrs. Visser) passing. We had the pleasure of knowing Kim from 2018-2021 when my boys attended DOC. She always called us by name, The Lam’s when she saw us! She would drop everything to attend to our needs. I loved her bubbly personality and her genuine concern for her students. She was the face of DOC!! She was a kind and gentle spirit that will be remembered forever in the hearts of so many that had the pleasure of knowing her throughout their high school years and after…Rest in God’s Eternal Peace 🙏🏼🙏🏼

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