Lacking words to properly express the grief and trauma we are all enduring with your passing, I can only try to hint at how empty and bereft we're all feeling. It hurts too much to say much more.
Knowing you, I know you wouldn't want that, I know you'd want us to lift our heads into the light rather than suffer in these dark depths. And sometimes, when I close my eyes, I can hear you laugh, hear you say something funny and maybe put on some Radiohead to lighten things up.
In time, I'll laugh again but in the meanwhile, I'll try to take comfort that you're free now, in Heaven with those who've gone before. And when it's our turn, you'll be there with our beloveds, waiting to welcome us home.
Rest in Peace my dear, sweet cousin! You are so loved and so dearly missed.
We shared so many wonderful and amazing moments. When I first move to Toronto, you were Toronto to me! Seeing the city through your eyes made me fall in love with the city. My first Cherry Beach party, Kensington Market, Graffiti Alley, too many restaurants to be name....so many firsts. Our shared love for house music and the many wonderful mixes you made me. Our shared love for travel, other cultures and people. The many ESC activities we took students on together. Games nights at yours. I always wanted to be your partner in trivial pursuit, as you always knew so much, about. ..so much! Your gentle, kind blue eyes, your generosity, your compassion, your inclusivity. You were so real and I always felt grounded around you. I remember the day you introduced me to Christian. We met at High Park during Cherry Blossom festival....you and Christian were standing down by the lake. Cherry blossom petals fluttered in the gentle breeze, and 10CC, "I'm not in love," was playing. As I approached you and Christian, you turned and smiled. You were so happy! The moment was ethereal and forever etched in my brain. I choose to remember you exactly as you were in that moment. Happy, full of life, fulfilled. You were always one of my best friends, and you were always there. I love you Chris DeVille. Until the next lifey friend.....
Chris was a major part of my life. Closer than family, he will always remain etched in my heart. We shared many of the same passions, but what I miss most is the laughter and joy we always had. No one will ever replace him. He was a beautiful human being and will be sorely missed forever.
Every interaction I had with Chris was kind and selfless. It is very apparent he was a wonderful friend to many. So very sorry for your loss, Christian and the De Ville family. Sending all of our love and our deepest condolences on such a tremendous loss. Sending you hopes of heart healing as you remember your fond memories together.
Love,
The Hires Family
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day.
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
So loved, so missed, so very dear.
Sending our deepest sympathy to all who knew and loved Chris.