In memory of

Catherine Anne Ray

November 23, 1929 -  August 17, 2018

Passed away suddenly at her home Friday August 17, 2018. Beloved wife for 59 years of the late Ronald Dixon Ray (2013). Left to mourn are her children Leslie (John Welwood), Ian (Linda) and David as well as grandchildren David and Jamie Welwood and Tyler and Lauren Ray.
Mom was born November 23, 1929 in Windsor Ontario, the only child of Henry & Dorothy Schade. She enjoyed a happy carefree childhood, spending summers at Glen Bernard Camp from 1936 - 1948. Mom met Dad, the love of her life, when they were 14, as they both attended Walkerville Collegiate and St Andrew's Presbyterian Church. She graduated from University of Toronto in 1951 and did the 'Grand Tour' of Europe by car in the summer of 1952 with 3 friends. She and Dad married May 22, 1954 and moved to Don Mills in November 1955. Mom was a very active member of St Mark's Presbyterian church Don MIlls for almost 63 years and volunteered at Thompson House, a seniors' home, for 40 years. She was a wonderful homemaker, wife, mother, grandmother and aunt. Mom was a champion bowler and loved the Blue Jays. Her favourite place was the family cottage on Lake Huron near Kincardine where the Rays have summered since 1956. Mom and Dad rarely missed watching the Kincardine Scottish Pipe Band Saturday night parade.

She will be deeply missed by her family and many friends.

A memorial service will be held Saturday September 15, 2018 at 11 o'clock at St Mark's Presbyterian Church, 1 Greenland Road, North York, ON M3C 1N1 with a reception to follow in the church hall. Visitation will take place Friday September 14, 2018 at St Mark's from 6 p.m. - 8 p.m.

Condolences can be sent to www.mountpleasantgroup.com, The Simple Alternative 275 Lesmill Road, Toronto

In lieu of flowers, the Ray family respectfully requests donations to either St Mark's Presbyterian Church or the Heart and Stroke Foundation.

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Lisa Hunter (Family friend)

Entered August 27, 2018 from Toronto

Dear Leslie, Ian and David
I am so sorry to hear of the recent passing of your beloved Mother, Cathy. She had a great smile and a great giggle. I always enjoyed our conversations at Bruce beach each year getting caught up and more recently I spent an afternoon with her a few years ago at The Donway Retirement residence where I worked when she was visiting a friend. I will miss her. Warm regards lots of love Lisa Hunter

Katharine Michie 

Entered August 27, 2018 from Prince George BC

Both your parents were always a great support to me. And Cathy was a great friend and birthday twin to Mum. I will miss her when I next come home

Liz Elliott (Friend)

Entered August 29, 2018 from Markham

Dear Leslie, Ian and David,

I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother was always very kind and generous to me. She and your Dad invited me to numerous weekends at their cottage and always made me feel most welcome. I had the pleasure of enjoying many delicious meals at your home in Don Mills. Your mother was always quick with a smile and laugh and seemed to enjoy her life with her wonderful husband and kids. I will remember her fondly.

Thompson House Staff and Residents (Friend)

Entered August 30, 2018 from Toronto

Please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of your Mom. So many residents here at Thompson House knew Cathy so well, for some of us we had the pleasure of working with her for 20 + years. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob "Percy" McClelland (Beta Theta Pi, UWO & St. Marks Church)

Entered September 4, 2018 from Belleville, ON

To her children & grandchildren, I offer my deepest condolences. Having sponsored Ron into Beta Theta Pi, I met Cathy at many fraternity parties. Ron was Bus 54, I was Bus 55. We were close buds. Later, when I moved to Don Mills, I joined St. Marks because Don Collier, the new minister had been at Glenview Presbyterian as a kid with me. I became Chairman of the Board of Managers when the Sanctuary was built. So our lives intersected after UWO. Now, at age 86, I live in retirement in Belleville & think fondly of my college friends from the early 50's. RIP

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