In memory of

Bonnie Francis Ka Tsui

June 1, 1982 -  November 1, 2024

Bonnie Francis Ka Tsui was born June 1,1982 in Scarborough to Ching Chee (Rosanna) Li and Hoi (Garry) Tsui. We sadly announce her sudden passing November 1, 2024 after a short but valiant battle with breast cancer.

Known as Bon or Bobo to her loved ones and friends, Bon will be forever remembered for her adventurous, independent spirit, tenacity, generosity, sharp wit and maybe being a little stubborn sometimes. Importantly, I think Bon would be mad at us (her husband Dan and brother Hubert) for even writing something like this for her… but we are going to do it anyway:

One of Bon's early passions was opera and classical music. Bon was a talented musician whose instrument of choice, the tuba (the largest instrument in the brass family), comically was bigger than her (Bon was famously just 5 ft tall). After realizing that she was not gifted enough to be a full time member of a professional orchestra, Bon decided to pursue a career in music by other means.

After graduating in 2006 with a BA from the University of Waterloo in Cultural Management (what on Earth is that?) she went overseas to the United Kingdom as a professional development manager for the English National Opera (ENO). Essentially, as described in her own words “I beg really, really rich people to donate money to the arts…”. Bon regarded her time in London to be amongst the happiest of times since while there, she met the love of her life Daniel Reynolds (a Hugh Grant look-a-like, honestly as relayed to me, her brother). Ultimately, no matter how much fun the ENO Friday Challenge was, in 2010 she returned home to pursue a Juris Doctor from the University of Toronto. Why? “Because you’re a doctor and I’m tired of renting a tiny flat in London.” Okay…

With report cards saying she was the best articling student they had ever seen, and wishing to work for a firm with an international reputation and scope, she joined Baker Mackenzie LLP in 2014 and was promoted to Partner in 2022.

Bon is survived by her husband Daniel Reynolds, their three year old daughter Elodie as well as her parents Rosanna and Garry, brother Hubert, sister-in-law Elizabeth and nephews Theodore and Elliott.

Last iMessage “I might need your help tomorrow”

We will always be there for you. Rest in peace…

In lieu of flowers, Elodie kindly asks that you provide gift cards from a bookseller (e.g. Indigo, Amazon) so she may carry on her mom's love of reading. Physical giftcards will be accepted or e-gift cards may be sent to elodie.tsui@gmail.com

For those who would like to join friends and family at a post-memorial reception, kindly RSVP by November 13th through the QR code in the photos tab OR go to the website below by copying and pasting the link in your internet browser.

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DR. HUBERT TSUI (Brother)

Entered November 8, 2024 from Markham

Thanksgiving Reprieve
 
“I’m sorry you missed your party”
Sis, I’d rather see you healthy
Was never in my power
Is this the final chapter?
 
That you even thought of others
In this context you still considered
When you struggle just to breathe
We both can't believe…
 
***
 
It’s not what I publish 
But fam moments to cherish
Yet it only seems clear
As mortals when we near
 
The end of the journey
 
How foolish I am?
Are my goals all a sham?
To be spending so much life
So consumed by the fight 
 
Yet for the good I have done
 
May I cash in my karma?
Procure that magic pharma
This glorified MD
Can’t heal what’s before me
 
So God please reshuffle
Your Message, it’s not subtle
These cards you have dealt
I know fulfillment’s not wealth
 
Yet…
 
I’m still in denial
That I really can’t save you
Like fortune spent wrongly
It will leave me so lonely
 
On this day to give thanks
There just isn’t a bank 
To buy you more time
In what should be our prime
 
And so we reminisce
Youthful memories seem bliss
Didn’t think it’d be me
To carry the family tree
 
***
 
“But we’re not giving up!”
Of course not, without a doubt
Though I’ve seen your chest CT
Tumors compress your SVC
 
You tell me
 
Don’t worry, I’ll be okay
We’ll take it day by day
You see the tears in my eyes
Surely this can’t be good-bye
 
In this battle against cancer
Every day I give that answer
But when it gets really personal 
What precision medicine arsenal?
 
That I failed to create? 
Too little, too late 
When cancer hits home
Who cares about the genome
 
This October Thanksgiving
Should celebrate just livin’
We should wine, we should dine
If only God would give more time 
 
And just so you know
I’ve given my best as big bro
You’re my only baby sis
When fate happens - forever you’ll be missed

Emily Stubbs (Colleague and friend)

Entered November 8, 2024 from London

Can’t believe you are gone. Will always remember your laugh

Debbie Alexander (Friend & colleague)

Entered November 11, 2024 from Scarborough

Rest in peace my dear friend. You will always be in my heart.

Cindy Lam (Childhood friend)

Entered November 11, 2024 from North York

Spending time with you was the best part of my childhood. Would always look forward to going over to your place for sleepovers, playing Barbie, going to Beckers, talking abt 90210 and just doing silly things. I’ll never forget the time we drank way too many Clearly Canadians and laughed uncontrollably for the longest time. I miss you and will always cherish these memories.

Noah, Oscar, Angela & Ivi (Friends)

Entered November 12, 2024 from London, UK

You are a curious and loving soul,
Determined with a goal,
You are authentic,
One of very few,
We miss you.

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